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Story time.... I used to be exactly the same, but once when i was travelling in London I was on the London eye with some friends and there were a bunch of other ppl in our carriage thingy as per usual. In this carriage there were also couple of sisters talking with each other (as they would) and joking around about 'would you jump?.. etc...' and I threw in a comment 'na, the water is too cold'. was it cheesy? YES... But, It got me talking to them and we ended up having great conversation leadnig to one of them asking me out again. I don't know where my comment came from, but ever since then i've had the confidence i've never had before. It's worth giving it a shot, and hey... nothing lost if nothing happens eh? I'm much more confident at work, and all the time around women now and even my gf (after mutual flirting as i was workgin in teh pub) asked me out! (after 5 mo's still happily together). Good luck with it man, it's nothing easy and will NEVER be easy, but... from one accidental success story, GO FOR IT!
-T
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