No, don't talk to your wife about it. Deal. Make a pact with yourself that sex with this woman will never, ever happen under any circumstances. And mean it.
In so many of us, there's a part that just wants to chase greedily after anything that pleases it, no matter how much danger to the good things we have. You can't make that piece of you go away, but you can confront it. If you bring it out into the light and take a good look at it and acknowledge it, it will become much less persuasive.
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