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I dunno, Filtherton. I keep reading the stuff you write, and I find that I really don't disagree with any of it. However I fail to see how what you wrote in the message above contradicts ladder theory. Maybe the problem is that my interpretation of LT has spread to include everything that I want it to say.
For me though, the point is, and I think other posts have pointed this out, is that you don't need to put women on a pedestal. You don't need to be a chump and question your own self worth. If a woman doesn't want to have a relationship, you need to realize that and let it go. Have some dignity, and have some self respect, wait for girls that want you on the good ladder.
I don't think there's anything wrong with going out and looking. However I agree that many of us look in the wrong places.
This is good stuff, worth some further meditation.
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