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I got a call from my ex last night. He got fired from his job. (No surprise that this would eventually happen -- I just thought it would be more like 2 years from now as his pattern is every 5 years.) Anyway, long story short -- I had to tell the girls this morning. One of them is moving to a higher level of gymnastics next month and needs a third leo. Both planned to fly with me to go to Lebell's send off party. Both plan for their dad to come to a meet in the middle of the month (his first all year.) And more!

Now I am stuck telling them: sorry, no leo. Sorry, I can't afford to buy you a ticket to fly to see Lebell and the only reason I'm going is because I got bumped from a flight and have a free ticket. Sorry, you must go out and sell more candy bars to pay for more gymnastics. (I will also ask the owners of the gym for temporary scholarships.)

Any pointers on how to help kids deal with financial stress without overburdening them? And how about helping mom deal? I have looked at the budget and sad truth is I need that money to survive -- so pointers on what to cut back on are appreciated. (Note: I already work two jobs.)

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