Grandparents rule: "when you _______, then _______" works every time. (When you put on your helmet, then you can ride your bike. When you clean your room, then we can go to gymnastics; etc) Note: it is never if ________, then ______ because that implies choice. They do not have a choice to put on a helmet or clean their room -- these are things that must be done.
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If you can go deeply into lovemaking, the ego disappears. That is the beauty of lovemaking, that it is another source of a glimpse of god
It's not about being perfect; it's about developing some skill at managing imperfection.
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