I agree with onetime2 completely. Take it slow and let things progress. You have plenty of time, and getting to know each other over time will either strengthen your feelings or weaken them. Its better to find out if time will strengthen them or weaken them before you express your initial feelings.
I aggree with Dale somewhat; she did have to go to the funeral, and support her firend and you could have offered to go along to support her, but I don't think that not offering is a bad thing at all. Just make sure that you let her know that you understand why she had to skip the concert and that you would be happy to go out in the next couple of days. You are not shallow because you did not offer to go, after all you have only known her for a month or so.
Just take it slow and easy it will all work out in the end.
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