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Originally posted by *Nikki*
I see so many potential things going wrong in that situation that could seriously fuck up what you and RB have.
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Whole-heartedly seconded.
I'd like to say what I usually say- that love is the most powerful thing in the world, and the more you have the better you are, and all that... but I just think there are so many things that could go sour...
...and in the process, could cause problems for you and Ratbastid... and to know I put my stamp of approval on soemthing that could possibly cause you 2 problems.... well, i just can't do that.
Now, if you lived VERY NEAR each other, but still in separate houses, I'd say go for it... worse-case scenario, you still have your own places... maybe even the duplex thing, because you could still be separate if things went to shit... but... I dunno.
Maybe it's best to take what i've said as a few points to ponder, and not really an "answer". Sorry I couldn't do better, but dropping a yes/no on this is impossible for me. Keep us updated- some of us here love you guys too.