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Originally posted by Ustwo
Being a mild swinger I CAN relate to this, and we are in a similar (though I wouldn't call it polyamorous) relationship.
I'd say go for it except if something does go wrong (and more can go wrong with 4 then 2) you are pretty screwed.
If you are in a true polyamorous relationship that everyone is 100% accepting of then I would do it. If you are in more of a swinging relationship where you are great friends, and have a good time in bed together I'd most likely keep making the drive.
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I agree... just think how are you going to live?Is your relationship going to be presented to your respective extended families and friends openly and proudly or are you going to be relegated to "roomate and babysitter" status?
Think long and hard on this one the pitfalls and potential for heartbreak seem huge.