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Originally posted by txlovely
How long have you been dating? I think "taking a break" is an excuse for avoiding either 1) actually breaking up, or 2) talking through your problems. If some serious and deep discussion can't get to the root of your issues, then time apart certainly won't help. If you love her, tell her you're not willing to take a break. Convince her you love her enough to sort through your problems. It will reassure her that you are serious about the relationship and hopefully, if there is an impetus to her wanting to be apart, she will come clean.
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I agree with your two points. I would much rather talk about it then take a break which gives it time to fester. In our case we really don't want to break up but we don't have a choice... (at least that's what she said.)