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Like everyone else said -- it'll come, and it'll come sooner if you're not obsessing over it.
It's kind of like looking for work. If you're desperate, the employer can sense it and may not trust what you say, because as far as he/she knows you might say anything to get the job. But if you're self-assured and only interested in the job if it's a good fit for you and the employer, then the employer will be much more willing to believe you, and believe in you.
So concentrate on the rest of your life and on keeping it satisfying. If you're fulfilled, sooner or later some woman's going to come along who finds you fulfilling.
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