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Originally posted by s4dfish
I sounds to me like your gf isn't terribly comfortable with a sexual relationship. I think that rather than trying to find someplace to get off, you need to work on the intimacy issues in your relationship.
Is there a history of abuse (physical/sexual) in her family? Oft times individual who were raised in such environments have a difficult time with sexual intimacy.
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completely agree -- though i don't necessary think there needs to be a history of abuse her hormones may just be more ready than her emotions -- which i think is a pretty common occurrence (especially when the idea that 'sex is wrong' is reinforced by having to sneak around).
I think maybe you guys should be a bit more concerned about the bleeding -- even if it is from dryness, why are you trying to have sex with her when she's not wet? if she's not wet her body is not ready to have sex -- i respect the fact that you feel like you do not have enough time to engage in a proper amount of foreplay but honestly having sex with a woman who is not physically prepared is pretty selfish.