Something I wished I had learned early on in this game (and it is that, for better or worse) is that confidence, either with women or anything else in life begins and ends with you. I had for too long pinned all my hopes and fears of approval based on what other ppl thought of me, this my friend is deadly! It's all an experiment, really. Try different things with different women i.e. attitude, eye contact, tonallity. Take notice of what works and dispose of what doesn't. I truely feel bad for folks who get so hung up on someone with whom they believe is their "soulmate" or some garbage to that effect that ppl end up getting either ignored, used and/or abused by the objects of their desire. Remember; Experiment! Ya can't go wrong!!! ;-)
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