Well, I'm no expert in anything whatsoever, but I'd say do it.
Okay, a lot of people have pointed out that "D" isn't sure about things in the long run, and how would the kiddies feel about you sleeping together blah blah blah...
However, it would seem to me that what carries your relationship on with this couple isn't sex - but more than that. It's friendship, perhaps even love. You could stop the sexual part of it all, and the friendship and everything else could quite well remain.
Family is important. It's the greatest form of wealth there is. The coming together of two families to form one should be done discreetly and carefully, but also should be welcomed and appreciated and cherished.
I applaud your courage and wish you the best with whatever you decide.
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