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yeah, put me in the "not-do-it" pile.
there are so many things that could go wrong. plus, the minute you bring children into the equation it changes the whole complexion of the situation.
honestly, i'll never understand how a person can share their lover with another person and still expect a healthy relationship. that being said, in my struggle to empathize with you my gut tells me that if you really plan for this to be a lifelong thing then waiting a year to let things solidify really isn't that much of a sacrifice.
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If you will not fight when your victory will be sure and not too costly, you may come to the moment when you will have to fight with all the odds against you and only a precarious chance for survival. There may even be a worse case. You may have to fight when there is no hope of victory, because it is better to perish than to live as slaves.
~ Winston Churchill
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