Look, if he would find you repulsive or disgusting in any way, he'd probably wouldn't sleep with you in the first place... And if you really were that offended by it, than just dump the guy, or take a very mean, and low, revenge...
But I agree with what was said here above somewhere, that he probably didn't mean it in such a bad way at all... Some guys --including my own bf-- just don't really know how to be all that tactical... and they say things in a way that makes them sound awful, while they didn't really mean it like that...
Women --including myself (sometimes!)-- tend to overreact at remarks on their appearances... this setting up a whole circular proces which could totally be avoided at the beginning...
Off course, if he IS completely destroying your self-esteem, as you say he does, you do not have to stand it, right, just fight back, or if that doesn't help, maybe you should just dump him...
I can't imagine what fun you can have out of a relationship that does nothing than making you feel bad?
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