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Originally posted by uptown
Oh it's all good,I'm very glad he was honest with me and I'll help him out here by making sure that till I can afford surgery to fix myself that he never has to view me nude again and since he loves oral sex,this solution should be very doable.
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I really doubt he said he doesn't want to see you nude anymore. That's your interpretation, and even without knowing either of you, I would bet good money that that's not at all what he meant.
I'm sure you knew that you had these imperfections. I sure know what's visually wrong with me. If someone pointed out my "problems" to me, my response would be "I know." That's it.
I think the most unnattractive thing you're doing is acting like this. Again, since he's with you, I'm sure he is attracted to you - all of you. Why would he want to have sex if you repulsed him? Why would he stick around if you made him sick? Your view makes no sense.
If a girl I was with had such a poor self-image as you're showing here, I might consider leaving her just for that. If you can bring yourself not to be bothered, I'm sure your "silent and strained" situation would clear up right away. He certainly wishes he never said anything, so the burden is on you to forget about it.