Just from the reading in this, as Nitrox said, it seems you've got some self-worth issues. Now, I'm midly overweight, and got plenty of stretch marks. I hate them with a passion and you rarely ever see me without a shirt on. I've always feared someone commenting about them or making fun of me because of them, as if someone was like, "haha, you can't take care of yourself so you got fat and blah blah". Recently though, I've gotten over them. Now though, I've gotten better and you might see me without a shirt one day this summer instead of none =p. My fiancee has said some things about my body, and I've said some about hers. We use these as things to work on, or work through.
I think you should love yourself before you try to love someone else because it appears that you might be lacking on that.
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