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Originally posted by uptown
The thought of ever being seen naked by him again makes me want to cry,I mean hey my stomach is obviously disgusting to him and he should be spared the horror of having to look at it.At this point I can't even look him in the face without wondering if he's measuring my eye circles which now loom larger than life.
I do live a healthy lifestyle,it's kinda hard though to have self-confidence after this kind of thing.I know he's sorry for what he said but I'm the one that has to live with it and I don't know what to say or how to act all I can do is be glad he's gone out so I can just sit and cry.
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Do you think he actually doesn't find you attractive? If so you may want to consider finding someone who does find you attractive. On the other hand, he may just be a good guy who happens to have insensitive prick tendencies in which case dumping his insensitive ass may not be the right way to go.
The important thing here is for you to come to terms with your appearance and not allow other people to have such a huge impact on the way you feel about your body and yourself. I know that's not nearly as simple as it sounds, but you have to start somewhere. Just realize that nobody is perfect when it comes to mind and body. We all have our own issues and very few people are satisfied with their bodies. It may make you feel better to realize that you're in good shape, which makes you a minority in america.