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Not knowing you or him, I can only offer limited advice. First of all, it's your own opinion that matters most. Secondly, confidence is sexy. The more confident you are in yourself, the better you will look and the better you will feel.
So, take what he said with a grain of salt. He is your boyfriend so I assume that he finds you attractive. He had had a couple of drinks so take his words not as negative blows but as helpful points of reference.
It is great that you are in shape and that you have a flat tummy (yum!). How long have you had the scars? If they are still relatively new, I have heard that massaging the area can help reduce the appearance of scars. Perhaps this is something your boyfriend can help you with. :-)
I don't know too much about bags under the eyes.
My recommendation is live a healthy lifestyle. Get enough sleep. Eat plenty of fruits and veggies. Get some sun (but don't overdue it). Exercise and sweat a little bit. Smile and be happy.
A lot of times the mental thing ties in with the physical thing. If you are feeling down, you look down, and then because you look down, you feel even more down and on and on it spirals.
The cool thing, though, is that if you feel up, then you look up, and because you look up, you start to feel even more up and on and on it goes in this direction.
So simply put, my advice is to believe in yourself and to start to feel good. It's spring time!!
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