There is an extensive thread on this topic in members that I started some time ago and if I did it right, the link below will take you there. Many interesting opinions on this there.
http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/showthr...threadid=30074
I do enjoy my door being held. But I NEVER, EVER expect it. It is all about common courtesy. I hold it for others, male, female, it makes no difference. I think people who EXPECT it and who are all "uptown" and think they are above actually getting their own door, or Lord forbid actually holding it for others, should be sentenced to a big reality check and have to spend a month as a door person at the busiest hotel in the world. Grrrr....
And sorry if the link doesn't work
