To be honest hubby and I got married for many wrong reasons. About two years ago we came close to one or the other walking on the door. In the past couple years we've gone through a lot and talked about a lot. We've fallen in love all over again. In a much more real, better way. I kindof feel like we just discovered that they other was the one about a year ago. We have also become "the one" for the other person at that time too. I know this sounds wierd but I don't know how else to say it. We weren't the ones for each other 5 years ago. We are now.
I would have to say that I knew he was the one I wanted to stay with when I could see we could work through ANYTHING. We've been through the whole round - him close to death, out of work for months, no money, a kid, discussing divorce (I won't go into the why's but the why's are Big), and coming back around to know we loved each other and trusted each other.
It wasn't a circumstance or even a single moment. It was a growth into the knowledge deep in my being that he was THE ONE.
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