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Well, for me, it wasn't about thinking about her 24/7, or having the same favourite colour. Actually, it was far more simple than that.
She made me feel 100% comfortable.
I hear some married couples can't even share a bathroom, even after 2 years of marriage. Sometimes the overbearing heat here irritates my skin, and after a cold shower I may get on my back and ask her if she'll "take a look at my ass and see if it's really really red, as it feels irritated". And she does, and neither of us makes nothing of it.
I've never been a people person, I've trouble relaxing even when I am around my parents. But with her, there were no uncomfortable silences, no judgment, no disrespect, not even in passing. And what's most of all, we always fight constructively, not destructively...something that is fairly rare between two people.
All of these things put together were more than enough for me to know.
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