For the first couple of paragraphs there I thought I was in the middle of a flashback.....
I had a roommate that decided to step in (regardless of what I actually said) with a woman I was interested in. During the course of their discussions they managed to make out quite heavily, in fact.
It always seemed I was in competition with this guy even when I wasn't. I ended up moving out not too long after that. I kept replaying it over and over; I just couldn't manage to move on.
One day about 3 months after I stopped talking to this schmuck. I ran into him out in public at a friend's house.
I hit him as hard as I could.
I know it wasn't the right thing to do, but it felt so good and I haven't really agonized over it since.
This guy you speak of as already decided that ass, in any form, is much more important than you. Get out, get away and if that doesn't work.....well....see above.
