How do you bring yourself to stay away and forget when this person has played a huge role in your adolescent life? He is everything that reminds me of my childhood. We were always thinking of marriage and a life of happiness together. Suddenly, he drops me on Christmas Eve for a girl who can play up his male ego. He stopped calling ever since he went on that "trip" of his, and expected me to automatically know. Three years together, and that is how I get dumped. I don't know about anyone else, but I think it is pretty tactless.
Since I have started my first year in College, it has gotten rather lonely during the ridiculously long breaks. It is so difficult to forget… and sometimes I feel as if I were still obsessed with the idiot who has broken my heart (I can assure you, this does not come about with boredom). Three months later, my mind has cleared up and I am able to see all the things he has done to me. He was a compulsive liar, a cheat, and someone who could care less about what happened to me. He left me completely broken, and never regretted it. Sadly enough, I still cannot say that I am quite over him.
Talking to him was never a problem, because he has been ignoring me ever since. He had his friends tell me that it was over. I was hoping the reason he never spoke to me afterwards was because the guilt was eating him up or he was afraid of my wrath, but more likely than not, it was the new girl telling him not to talk to me. I introduced them to each other too. Some friend she was.
fallenangel: BlueBongo and lisa have already said it, but I'll repeat it anyway: it will hurt to remain friends after the breakup. Although they both offer different solutions, I'm willing to bet that the majority of women will have gone with BlueBongo and completely break away from the guy.
lisa, I think that it's great that you can talk to your ex's. I totally agree that honestly is important in relationships. I have tried talking to my ex after a break up before, and it ended up with the both of us throwing accusations at each other. ^^; That really hurt... but we ended up back together... and then broken up...
It just never works out in the end, does it? :x
At least this time, I know never to trust him.
Any advice from the ladies for getting over him? Telling me how much of a moron I am might prove to me a good motivation method.
