I can remember being in high school and being absolutely afraid to ask out a girl, terrified she would say no. Finally getting up the nerve and having her say yes.
After a couple times of this and experiencing the greatest levels of fear I realized that there really was nothing to it. The worst thing that will happen is she will say no. No harm, no foul.
It is just a date you are asking her out on.
Once on the date just be yourself. While you will likely be nervous at first, it will pass. Just remember she is likely to be nervous as well.
So just relax. If she does say no, ask someone else.
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- Old Man Luedecke
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