There is a reason guys don't share guytalk with girls, and I feel that motdakasha's post proves my point.
Girls overthink everything.
Guys will have conversation about something like the Houdini that Sleepyjack mentioned. We'll all laugh, knowing perfectly well, that none of us will ever do that to a woman in our entire lives. Yet a woman listening in on that conversation would be not only totally offended, but secretly wondering if one of us really did it, and what kind of person that guy could possibly be, and even what kind of person the rest of us were for even talking to him.
my proof
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If their humor isn't what you find funny in the least bit, then at least you know where you stand and you can find new friends if you don't like it
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I mean naturally our humor isn't going to be funny to you. Men and women are very different in this way. Yet you hearing something out of proper context, and then making a judgement call about the people there, is (although understandable) wrong.
If I'm wrong, and I don't think I am, then I would love to hear about it.
Back to the part about the girl in the fat suit. Is there some kind of unwritten rule that says fat women need to have their egos stroked, and that people need to be nice to them? I mean, I'm a big guy, and I don't ever try to solicit compliments from the opposite sex about my appearance.
I think it's okay to be mean to a fat girl. If she's got a nice personality, you'll feel bad anyway, and she'll get some respect.
However on the other hand, if you're nice to a girl, just because she's hot... you're just an (af) chump.