A better question would have been, "Have any of you dated someone 5'9" and 280 lbs".
If the answer to the question you asked was no, but the answer no did not fit their own self image, more than likely they wouldn't even realize the answer was no, and would simply answer yes.
If you want to know how people behave, don't ask how they think they would behave.
A good short answer would be, right now the easiest way you have to make yourself more attractive to more women (ie, on average) is to lose weight. So, be lazy: lose weight.
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Last edited by JHVH : 10-29-4004 BC at 09:00 PM. Reason: Time for a rest.
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