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neoinoakleys · 05-02-2003, 07:45 AM

You owe it to her AND yourself to be honest. If you are not ready to have children, by ALL means don't give in. If she needs to have children, then perhaps you 2 just are not right for each other. The 2 of you are just at different phases of life. Neither one of you should sacrifice. Hold on to what you believe and the thoughts that you have. If you feel that you are not ready, by ALL means don't have children. If there is even a SHRED of doubt, don't have children. Having children is a HUGE responsibility, financially, emotionally, socially, etc...

There are many other fish in the sea, man...there is someone out there that you can fall in love with that understands you and understands the phase that you are at in your life. If this one can not understand or if this girl is looking to have kids then you are at an impass...do yourself and this girl a favor and part comapny, before things get really complicated and resentful.

You are only 23 years old...there is no rush...be young.

05-02-2003, 07:45 AM	#21 (permalink)
neoinoakleys Psycho Location: Michigan	You owe it to her AND yourself to be honest. If you are not ready to have children, by ALL means don't give in. If she needs to have children, then perhaps you 2 just are not right for each other. The 2 of you are just at different phases of life. Neither one of you should sacrifice. Hold on to what you believe and the thoughts that you have. If you feel that you are not ready, by ALL means don't have children. If there is even a SHRED of doubt, don't have children. Having children is a HUGE responsibility, financially, emotionally, socially, etc... There are many other fish in the sea, man...there is someone out there that you can fall in love with that understands you and understands the phase that you are at in your life. If this one can not understand or if this girl is looking to have kids then you are at an impass...do yourself and this girl a favor and part comapny, before things get really complicated and resentful. You are only 23 years old...there is no rush...be young. __________________ It's My Duty to Please That Booty!! Last edited by neoinoakleys; 05-02-2003 at 07:48 AM..