VitaminH

Ok so I'll admit it. I am dense. Like, really dense. I can't tell when girls are sendin me signals. Anywho I'd been flirting with a lady at school for awhile, she seemed really interested in me. My courtship was going well and I was about to make the move and try to get her to go to dinner with me or somesuch. Last Friday rolls around and she's telling me how she has nothing to do that night and just sort of looks at me. That little voice in my head was SCREAMING "this is your chance." I did nothing. 1) because I am an idiot. 2) I'd promised my roomate I'd meet her for dinner when she got off work (her first day at a new job, I had no way to call and cancel and didnt want to just stnad her up).

So we said our goodbyes and went our seperate ways. I came up with the plan of calling her sat and seeing if she wanted to at least get lunch with me sometime over the weekend. I bring it up with my roomate. She's a girl, she'll know what to do right? Well she's currently pursuing/being pursued by a fella and he's sort of playing hard to get i guess? It's driving her nuts but she loves it. She advises me I should do the same and tells me I definatly should NOT call her over the weekend. So i didnt. Seems to be a mistake. Now this week the girlie seems somewaht off to me and less interested.

What do I do? She just generally seems colder and I'm afraid to make the move now. I am a wimp.

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