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Dei37 and I communicate through the day or at least on his lunchbreak. Usually he comes right home with a detour for milk or other things on occaision. If he's more than an hour late I sometimes worry. Most of the time if he's got any plans to get the oil changed on the car or go wash the car and he'll be taking a while to get home he will let me know on his lunch break. Otherwise he's not "required" to notify me. It doesn't matter to me WHAT keeps him later but it's nice to know what's happening. In my eyes if anything were to happen here at home then I know where to reach him.
There are times at night, especially on the weekend, where he'll go over to my brothers, out bowling, or just goofing off with my brother or a friend and I'll tell him to just let himself in when he gets home. I go on and do my own thing and just go to bed when I'm ready. Last weekend he went midnight bowling with my sister-in-law and another guy. He didn't get home till 2:30 I think. I don't mind. He knows I'll go do what I want/need to when he's gone. He doesn't have a "curfew" or anything like that. He can do his own thing and I don't have to know every last detail. He still will often call or keep in touch just so I know I have no need to worry.
My biggest worry when I don't know where he is and I'm expecting him home like if he doesn't come home from work until 2 hours after he normally does is that he's had a siezure while driving. He's only had 2 in his life but I fear it. He's a sweetie and makes sure I don't have to worry.
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