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I didn't read all the responses, so I apologize if I'm echoing. (Sorry)
She acknowledged and apologized, and those are big deals. Forgive her, but leave her with the stipulation that being drunk is NEVER an excuse. Also, make sure she knows it won't change your relationship- sometimes a cheaters' guilt is stronger because they fear that you'll do the same to them. If she knows everything is still rock solid, she'll feel good about fessing up and the honesty in your relationship will continue. That's a really good thing.
Additionally, girl-girl is NOT the same as girl-boy, if she's straight, and you kinda have to assume she is. She wasn't interjecting that intimacy to someone other than you, she was trying something different that really didn't have anything to do with you- after all, you're not a girl. Doesn't make it okay, but emotionally, it is a different ball of wax.
Double standard time- if I told my wife I kissed another man, she'd prolly be gone by the time I finished the sentence.
Betrayal hurts no matter what. Honesty is the only cure!
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