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Sounds to me like you need to define your values and act with integrity. Things don't just happen, you made a conscious choice. Why? you have a contract with the person you are with, whether spoken or unspoken, and if open relationship isn't part of that you flat out broke the contract. I'd say a person of integrity wouldn't have gotten that far, but I also say it's never too late to start. You have an obligation to her, and to yourself to be honest. be honest with yourself too. It doesn't matter whether you're honest with us, but with yourself, it's an absolute necessity. You will continue to make bad decisions if you do not have your values clearly defined in your head and live with integrity. (that means living up to your values for the sake of this discussion.) I cannot imagine making a reasonable decision without first knowing what it is that I value and WHY.
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