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Sorry to be the naysayer here John,
But is she's done it once, what is to stop her from doing it again?
The gender is rather irrelavant, it's that she stepped over a line, a known paramenter of a relationship, without it bothering her enough to stop her.
That's a fundamental loss in trust and I rather think that the gender is irrelevant.
As the saying often goes, "S/He cheated once, what will stop them from doing it again?". Once your SO has done such a thing, the respect for the boundry of a relationship can quickly erode if not handled right by both parties.
The line has been crossed, and I think it's rather important that you establish that while this will not end your relationship, it is a loss of trust.
If i had to take a stab at it, I'd say the back of your mind in nagging you over that sudden change/loss in trust and it's possible long term affects on your relationship.
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