I don't know much about your relationship, but I left a similar relationship and neither of us was especially broken up. We had been coasting, as somebody else said. The signs are usually there: not as much to talk about anymore, not as interested in doing things together, diverging interests with no great effort made by either side to bridge the gap. Nothing was horrible or anything, so it was easier to stay together than to move apart. But that was it; in the end, the relationship no longer about anything but convenience, and eventually we both figured out that this wasn't enough for the long haul. Was it like that for you?
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