Hey everyone, thanks in for taking the time to look at my thread. Also, thanks in advance for the replies. Sorry in advance for the long winded post, it is just sometimes hard for me to convey my thoughts.
I am 19 years old, and there is this girl who I have became good friends with recently.
Anyways to move the story along last weekend she gave me a massage over at my place, when I was really stressed out about something. Nothing Sexual, just a friendly shoulders and back massage, while i was sitting leaning back against her. She did this for like a couple hours and we just talked and had a great time.
I am going over to her place for Dinner and a Movie this next weekend (We live far away and dont get to hang out that often only on weekends) .
I was thinking I want to repay the favor and give her a little shoulders and back massage type of thing. Nothing sexual just a friendly little rub down while we talk and watch a movie.
Anyways, she usually just leans back against me when we watch Tv or whatever, so The posistion we would probably be in would be me sitting next to her on the couch sitting sideways with her facing the Tv. and he back to my front section.
I am not inexperienced sexually or anything, its just I have never given a "non sexual massage" before. LOL.. I know it sounds dumb. So what I am asking is how should I go about giving her an excellent shoulder and back massage without making it to sexual? I really want to impress her and do a good job, however I dont want to make it too intimate.
She plays basketball and tennis and has sore shoulders a lot, and has slight tendinitus in one of her shoulders. If that helps.
So basically, anyone have any tips or techniques for giving a great shoulder massage? Also, I plan on asking her wahts he she likes and ya know asking her what feels good and all that, its just I wanna try and be good right off the bat without having to ask
Once again, sorry for the long post, thanks in advance for the help. Have a Good day.