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Sounds like she wasn't telling you when things were bothering her - maybe she was just saving them up until she didn't like you so much any more. This is pretty common - believe me, I know. Communication is key. She needs to tell you what she wants and you need to do it. She for you too... Really pretty simple acutually.
If she tells you what she wants/needs then you can either do it or not and she can either live with it or not. It is either worth you doing to make her happy or not and you are willing to live with results or not. THe thing that screws everything up is if she bottles it up and doesn't tell you and then hates you, or if she does actually tell you and you don't listen or do anything about it. All is not lost. If you can each change and try to please each other then everything can be fine again, believe me, I know - went through this repeatedly in my 17 years of marriage - still going strong.
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