Need Marriage Advice!!!
I have been having some issues with my wife lately and I am hoping to get some perspective and/or advice.
Here we go. Last night, I had a long talk with my wife. She has been very distant to me lately and I wanted to know what was wrong. She got very quite and emotional. I then proceeded to ask her if she loved me and then the comment that crushed me was that she said she loves me, but is not in love with me. We have only been married for two years now and this comes out of left field. She then said that she built a wall up because of some of the things that I did in the past and hurt her. For example, She would ask me to go for a walk and told her not today and that she is resentful of me because she had to quit her job and move to me when we got married and it took her 9 months to find a job. Now, she works the night shift as a process supervisor and I work during the day. Therefore, our time is limited.
I have offered up a marriage counselor because I want to fight for what we have. She said that she is going to spend the weekend to think about it.
I am thinking the worst and I would like to find out anyone's perspective.
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