Thank you for the supportive messages, you guys are great. Many of you suggested Viagra but I still want to try to fix this without it. I do think that at least some part of my problem is in my head and I've got to be patient to get rid of it. Like I said, usually the sex is good so the problem can't be only physical.
Also, the last few weeks we've had to use a condom but now she's back on the pill which I'm happy about. I hate condoms, when using one I have to concentrate on getting hard more than without one.. and I like sex more better without one so it's great to finally get rid of them again.
What makes things difficult is that we only see each other on weekends, so when I fuck it up I think about my failure over and over again during the week, and be stressed about it the next time I see her.. thank god my service in the army lasts only till July.
You guys gave me a lot to think about, I'm glad there's a place like this where I can talk about anything because I really don't have anyone besides my girlfriend who I can talk about this with.
I'll try to be patient and not worry about what others might think of my situation. Hopefully things will get better with time.
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