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Ustwo · 03-01-2004, 08:28 AM

As someone who can be considered a swinger at various times let me point out a few red flags for you so you go into this with the right amount of caution.

Single males in swinging are a dime a dozen, if that much. There are scores of single men who want to swing, many of them cheating husbands, and most never get anywhere with it. Now you may have gotten lucky and just found a perfect couple right off the bat BUT there may be problems too.

#1 – Might be a fake, make sure to talk to them on the phone first, or as you said meet in a bar. Good chance you might get stood up at the bar.

#2 – The man might be Bi which is maybe why they want to know what you are into. If you don’t do that, make sure they know ahead of time.

#3 – Pictures ahead of time might change your mind.

Also I have been the ‘other’ M in a MFM when my SO was out of town (with her blessing) and while they are fun, they are awkward too. Swinging is really about couples and it’s a lot more fun as a couple, and I’ll be honest in that I never knew why single men would swing.

03-01-2004, 08:28 AM	#8 (permalink)
Ustwo Pissing in the cornflakes	As someone who can be considered a swinger at various times let me point out a few red flags for you so you go into this with the right amount of caution. Single males in swinging are a dime a dozen, if that much. There are scores of single men who want to swing, many of them cheating husbands, and most never get anywhere with it. Now you may have gotten lucky and just found a perfect couple right off the bat BUT there may be problems too. #1 – Might be a fake, make sure to talk to them on the phone first, or as you said meet in a bar. Good chance you might get stood up at the bar. #2 – The man might be Bi which is maybe why they want to know what you are into. If you don’t do that, make sure they know ahead of time. #3 – Pictures ahead of time might change your mind. Also I have been the ‘other’ M in a MFM when my SO was out of town (with her blessing) and while they are fun, they are awkward too. Swinging is really about couples and it’s a lot more fun as a couple, and I’ll be honest in that I never knew why single men would swing. __________________ Agents of the enemies who hold office in our own government, who attempt to eliminate our "freedoms" and our "right to know" are posting among us, I fear.....on this very forum. - host Obama - Know a Man by the friends he keeps.