rla512

I absolutely love giving my girlfriend a really close hug, where our pelvises are pushed together, with my erection poking her...

I also like coming up to her behind and holding myself close, with the same outcome...

I imagine this is a common thing with couples, but don't hear it talked about much. What experiences do you all have with this?

1337haxor

Yeah, I love doing that too Usually after the long hug she looks down and we laugh together about it, haha.

Impetuous1

I love close hugging my SO too. It's like safety, calm and arousal combined. Mmmm.

art of leaving

Yeah, this happens a lot when I'm with my boyfriend.
Sometimes we pass it off as "oops, I'm really sorry, I can't believe that happened."
But it's all in good fun.
We always end up laughing.

__________________
"Sometimes it seems like we're all living in some kind of prison, and the crime is how much we all hate ourselves. It's good to get really dressed up once in a while and admit the truth -- that when you really look closely, people are so strange and so complicated that they're actually beautiful. Possibly even me."

ShaniFaye

we like to do this when we are shopping, specially in "craft" type stores...hobby lobby, michaels, the pottery, garden ridge....something about the smell of those places and him getting close to me like that when Im pushing a cart makes me horny as hell

__________________
I want the diabetic plan that comes with rollover carbs. I dont like the unused one expiring at midnite!!

snowy

My SO loves to hug me from behind...his favorite method is to just barely grasp my hips but make sure his pelvis is planted into my rear. Sometimes he'll hug me more tightly or less tightly, depending on the situation.

__________________
If I am not better, at least I am different. --Jean-Jacques Rousseau

Daoust

The hug from behind, feel-the-erection-hug, that's what happens to me at dance clubs. I always felt totally weird about it, because I wondered if girls were grossed out that I had a hard on when we were bumping and grinding...

Girls, is that gross?

__________________
I have faith in a few things - divinity and grace
But even when I'm on my knees I know the devil preys

healer

I do it all the time. mandy loves it - especially when I hug her from behind. She'll end up sticking her butt out a little more just to give me more of a grind

__________________

HiWayMan

I love to do the hug-from-behind with my wife. Mr. Pointy in between the cheeks, arms around her - just caressing the bottom of her breasts -, and a light bite on the back of the neck. She loves it.

And so do I.................I think I might need some alone time now..............

insidious_machinae

I'm also a big fan of this, but sometimes it irritates la petite moi, because (as with many things) I tend to do it too much.

la petite moi

^ No, he tends to do it in the morning, when I'm dead asleep.

Leto

hmmm... then why do I always get the "there you go again making it all about sex" reaction?

grrr.

__________________
You said you didn't give a fuck about hockey
And I never saw someone say that before
You held my hand and we walked home the long way
You were loosening my grip on Bobby Orr

http://dune.wikia.com/wiki/Leto_Atreides_I

Sugar&Spice

Not necessarily gross, but it makes me a little uncomfortable. If I am dancing with some guy I am attracted to or I feel comfortable with, then it is no big deal to me if he has an erection. However, sometimes I will dance with guys that I am not in any way attracted to and if they get an erection I feel a bit uncomfortable..I know it would be hard not to with a girl grinding against them, but I want to get away as fast as possible. As long as they are not being creepy by pulling me against them or rubbing their hands all over me, I will finish out the dance.

__________________
-Speak your mind even if your voice shakes

rlynnm

I miss hugs like those....

Unfortunately, I'm afraid I don't do it for him anymore..It's funny cause for the first two yeras it was always like this. I'd hug him and he'd have an instant erection..but we started being around each other more frequently and this, to my demise, the hug-erections at least, have diminished exponentially. None of it is his fault. I haven't felt too attractive in a while and maybe he sees the same...

Anyways, yes I love 'em but unfortunately, I don't get 'em much.

__________________
The hardest thing is to be honest with yourself, especially if that means completely redefining the world you've come to know.

Don't look too hard, I'm right in front of you.

lurkette

It depends...sometimes I like those hugs, but other times (and ratbastid will vouch that those times are completely unpredictable) they make me feel suffocated, almost panicky. Dono what that's all about. But when I AM in the mood for them, they're very nice. Although usually, because ratbastid is a foot taller than I am, it's not pelvis-to-pelvis but more pelvis to belly or pelvis to back. Not quite so sexy.

__________________
"If ten million people believe a foolish thing, it is still a foolish thing."

- Anatole France

abaya

Ohhhh I love it ANYTIME ktspktsp has an erection. Especially if it's due to my presence. So if he is hugging me, from the front or behind, and I feel his dick against me... mmmmmm I love it. In public is even better, though that doesn't happen often.

When I was single and went dancing at clubs, though... if some dude got a hard-on while dancing with me, that would be gross! I don't remember that happening, but I am sure I would have run away quickly if some guy did that.

__________________
And think not you can direct the course of Love;
for Love, if it finds you worthy, directs your course.
--Khalil Gibran