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elsesomebody · 12-02-2005, 10:31 AM

My wife and I only have a year experience with sex/marriage. We have tried rear entry positions but found them painful/uncomfortable, especially for her. The cause seems to be caused by her pubic bone and my penis pushing against each other. This pressure also occurs with her on top if she tries to sit straight, which also seems to almost force my penis out. Has anybody else experienced this or have any suggestions?

ShaniFaye · 12-02-2005, 10:43 AM

I cant have sex from behind, its VERY painful for me.

Some women are "short" inside and when you penetrate that way you're actually hitting the cervix (which on the pain scale has been compared to a guy getting kicked in the nuts)

When Im on top I cant sit straight up either, for the same reason...so I dont lol I get on top and lean forward and thats my fav position!!!

innovis · 12-02-2005, 11:15 AM

Not sure if this would help, I think it may have in my old relationship where it hurt my ex, not because I was going too deep, just the angle was painful. Try google for perenium massage. Erm, better yet, I'll do it.

http://pregnancy.about.com/cs/episio...erimassage.htm

I forgot where I saw a thread about this, it may have been on here or askmetafilter, but try it out and see if it helps.

ShaniFaye · 12-02-2005, 11:28 AM

this is gonna sound dumb, but how is that gonna help with pain when you're doing it doggy?

denim · 12-02-2005, 02:10 PM

I have a friend that got most of her pleasure from her cervix being hit. Now that she's w/o it, she's sad.

innovis · 12-02-2005, 02:16 PM

The angle can make the penis press more into the perenium which can be uncomfortable. When we used to try it I could barely get it, but when it did go in the thing that was stretching (up) would have been the perenium.

kel · 12-03-2005, 05:13 PM

Try arching your (her?) back so the angle between her legs and hips is sharper.

Impetuous1 · 12-03-2005, 09:02 PM

Maybe you should start with her laying on her stomach and slowly raising up on her knees to find a postion which you both find comfortable? Also try pillows to prop her at the right angle. Alternatively, you could try with her standing up or kneeling on the bed or couch.

About the arching of the back thing, this could be done by holding her arms behind her. But, to be honest that is a little painful.

cokelvr · 12-12-2005, 12:10 PM

You could try a Liberator.

http://www.liberator.com/

12-02-2005, 10:31 AM	#1 (permalink)
elsesomebody Tilted Location: North Carolina	Vaginal penetration from behind painful My wife and I only have a year experience with sex/marriage. We have tried rear entry positions but found them painful/uncomfortable, especially for her. The cause seems to be caused by her pubic bone and my penis pushing against each other. This pressure also occurs with her on top if she tries to sit straight, which also seems to almost force my penis out. Has anybody else experienced this or have any suggestions?

12-02-2005, 10:43 AM	#2 (permalink)
ShaniFaye Submit to me, you know you want to Location: Lilburn, Ga	I cant have sex from behind, its VERY painful for me. Some women are "short" inside and when you penetrate that way you're actually hitting the cervix (which on the pain scale has been compared to a guy getting kicked in the nuts) When Im on top I cant sit straight up either, for the same reason...so I dont lol I get on top and lean forward and thats my fav position!!! __________________ *I want the diabetic plan that comes with rollover carbs. I dont like the unused one expiring at midnite!!*

12-02-2005, 11:28 AM	#4 (permalink)
ShaniFaye Submit to me, you know you want to Location: Lilburn, Ga	this is gonna sound dumb, but how is that gonna help with pain when you're doing it doggy? __________________ *I want the diabetic plan that comes with rollover carbs. I dont like the unused one expiring at midnite!!*

12-03-2005, 05:13 PM	#7 (permalink)
kel WARNING: FLAMMABLE Location: Ask Acetylene	Try arching your (her?) back so the angle between her legs and hips is sharper. __________________ "It better be funny"

12-02-2005, 11:15 AM	#3 (permalink)
innovis Crazy	Not sure if this would help, I think it may have in my old relationship where it hurt my ex, not because I was going too deep, just the angle was painful. Try google for perenium massage. Erm, better yet, I'll do it. http://pregnancy.about.com/cs/episio...erimassage.htm I forgot where I saw a thread about this, it may have been on here or askmetafilter, but try it out and see if it helps.

12-02-2005, 02:10 PM	#5 (permalink)
denim Banned Location: Massachusetts, USA	I have a friend that got most of her pleasure from her cervix being hit. Now that she's w/o it, she's sad.

12-02-2005, 02:16 PM	#6 (permalink)
innovis Crazy	The angle can make the penis press more into the perenium which can be uncomfortable. When we used to try it I could barely get it, but when it did go in the thing that was stretching (up) would have been the perenium.

12-03-2005, 09:02 PM	#8 (permalink)
Impetuous1 Insane Location: Arizona	Maybe you should start with her laying on her stomach and slowly raising up on her knees to find a postion which you both find comfortable? Also try pillows to prop her at the right angle. Alternatively, you could try with her standing up or kneeling on the bed or couch. About the arching of the back thing, this could be done by holding her arms behind her. But, to be honest that is a little painful.

12-12-2005, 12:10 PM	#9 (permalink)
cokelvr Tilted	You could try a Liberator. http://www.liberator.com/