Mantus

We hear people talk about how the first time is special. Some people say that they wished they saved themselves for that special someone. I was writing a responce to such a post when I realized that I don't remember how I lost my virginity. Infact I don't remember any of my "firsts" when it comes to sexual encounters accept for my very first move on a girl.

However I do remember all the best experiences.

I can also recall of my worst sexual encounter.

Anyone else like this?

[edited to remove all the "braging" from the post. Sorry, us men have a tendancy to get carried away]

Suave

I'll bet there are a fair number of people like that, due to drinking and such.

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Carno

Hell, I don't remember the last three years of my life!

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Mantus

Wow cool, I am a freak.

And no it's not a result of drinking or other substances. I manage to remember other things just fine. I just never cared for the nostalgia of "firsts". So things like lossing the Big V were never a big deal to me. Infact I can perfectly recall my line of thinking before my first time. After reading several books on sex I was really excited and thinking about all the possibilites. So the first time was like a small stepping stone for me.

I guess I wrote this post because I give advice every now and then to people in life and on forums, and I wan't to be considerate of other points of view.

alec

Haha, I can't really remember what happened in my first time either. I just remember feeling uncomfortable and intoxicated. But I don't get how you forgot if you were sober.

macmanmike6100

Had to post here because I, too, only vaguely remember "my first time." I was entirely sober (and honestly don't think I would've done it the first time any other way) and just ready for it. The first time was in high school just as I turned 17 and, as I think of it now, it blurs with the other sexual encounters I had with my ex. In any case, I do remember that it was awkward and not very good (esp. because it was her first time, too).

Martian

I don't understand how you can remember the lead-up to your first time and not the deed itself.

Anyway, I remember my first time, although the details are a bit hazy. We weren't drunk, just, um.. excited. It was all-night sex. I find that in those instances I tend not to remember the details, just the night of really amazing sex. I can't even tell you how many times we had sex, although I'm sure the number of times I had sex with my current girl on the first night we did the nasty eclipses it by a fair bit. As for that number, well.. I've previously said it here but I'm not sure if people took it seriously. It's a 'you wouldn't believe me if I told you' sort of number.

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sentimental_arm

i was so young when i stuck my dick into a girl that i can't remember my first time.

serlindsipity

The real question is - Do you really want to remember? usually the first time isnt a lot of fun. Sometimes i wish i didnt remember my first few times for that reason, it was so anti-climatic and non-chalant.

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xrayvision2

i can't remember what i had for dinner last night!

xepherys

I remember my first time... but yeah, it's not really a big deal. I agree with the OP regarding firsts... *shrug*

Poppinjay

Where did you leave it last? Re-trace your steps.

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Charlatan

Now that's comedy.


I wish I didn't remember my first time. It was rather tawdry and involved a lot of discomfort and washing machines.

I don't remember it for the nostalgia or to mark "the first" rather I remember it as a valuable lesson learned.

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noodles

my first time was my worst time, so yeah i remember it.

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Anneri

I don't remember details, alot of alcohol was consumed, but 9 months on i certainly had something to show for it !

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Mantus

You are full of dirty lies Charalatan. Sex and washing machines CANNOT go wrong.

Jeez so many bad first, didn't you people study before hand?

Charlatan

In later experiences your statement is perfectly accurate.


Study? Does Penthouse Forum count?

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bloodychill

You can't say that and not tell the story.

xxSquirtxx

I remember, and it wasn't that bad at all.

Altitude

I can imagine alcohol playing a role in sexual encounters leads to loss of memory, but for me, I'll always remember my first time... just cemented in my memory, I guess.

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CrAzEd

Don't worry about it dude, I can't remember anything like that, OR what I even ate for breakfast yesterday