11-20-2005, 05:35 PM | #1 (permalink) |
Insane
Location: Chicago
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Doh, I messed up again
After dating a girl for 2 weeks, I mentioned that I was looking for a relationship. Oops. So a week later she says she isn't looking for a relationship and but just dating. I think I managed to scare her off. I should really just stop talking most of the time. How do I mention that I'm ok with just dating for now?
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11-20-2005, 05:58 PM | #3 (permalink) |
Insane
Location: Chicago
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Yeah, I did tell her that I'm fine with just dating, but I guess she has problems with that. Chalk it up to a learning experience I suppose. It does send the wrong message I think because now I am very unlikely to let a girl I am interested actually know that I am interested in a relationship. Of course, this means tons of ambiguity. Wonderful.
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12-09-2005, 03:46 PM | #5 (permalink) |
Falling Angel
Location: L.A. L.A. land
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Yeah, it's not a bad thing at all. You don't want to "trick", or be seen as trying to "trick" a gal into a relationship. Just keep trying, you'll find someone more compatible, and it won't be a drama right out the gate.
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12-09-2005, 04:23 PM | #6 (permalink) |
Insane
Location: Chicago
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Funnily enough, I didn't push continuing dating at all. Then out of the blue the other day, she contacts me and we're talking and eventually I am invited over. I guess after giving her room for two weeks, she became interested again. She really wants to date now. The problem was that we had never gone on a real date, just pseudo dates with friends. No romance or anything. Who knows, I don't understand how these minds work. She knows what I'm looking for now and is apparently ok with it. So, it's all good again.
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