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fresnelly · 10-15-2005, 06:43 AM

We were both 19 and in University. We weren't even dating but went back to my dorm room after a drunken night out with a bunch of classmates. I'm not proud of myself and I look back on the ensuing relationship as sort of a 2 week one night stand that I initiated. I was feeling pretty guilty by the 2nd week because it was clear to me that I wasn't interested in her, so I told her I didn't think it was right to keep having sex. That part I am proud of.

After that I felt better but was only able to stick out the relationship for another week and broke it off. I run into her a couple times a year because we work in the same industry. She is married to another of our old classmates and I think I'm more akward about it than she is.

#2 is my lovely wife.

Is it wrong to wish my first had been this girl I had a crush on in highschool?

shesus · 10-15-2005, 08:37 AM

Fresnelly, I think most of us look back and wish we had slept with someone in our past that we didn't. Either that or you and I are alone in that wishing

HoneyPot · 10-15-2005, 05:26 PM

My first and I are still friends. All I remember is how it hurt like a bitch when we did it. I cried so much.... haha Now I'm like, what happened? I'm glad we are still really close. We dated for three years. I was almost twenty when I lost my virginity.

Mugzy6 · 10-15-2005, 06:05 PM

Absolute jackass LOL. But each time it has gotten better ever since. Now I'm with a man that I love and really do want to marry and we have great sex. A lot hehe.

radioguy · 10-15-2005, 07:25 PM

my first was with my wife about a month before we got married. we're not married anymore, but we still talk.

Shadefire · 10-16-2005, 11:31 AM

I lost my virginity 2 days before my 19th b-day and he was 33. It was to my married priest in a one night stand.

He's really my pagan priest/teacher and he just hadn't gotten divorced yet, but they had been separated for years. I really wanted to see what sex was like and he took the task on as just another thing to teach me. It was a good experience and I'm glad I did it.

Having since gotten to know the truth of him a little better, I can see that at the time it was all he was actually good for. He's a lot better now and in a good and loving relationship.

dkocolin · 10-20-2005, 05:14 AM

started seeing a lovely redheaded girl the end of the summer, we're both 19, not dating. hooked up twice on the beach, she went to italy on vacation while i went back to college, when she came back she visited at school and it happened

raeanna74 · 10-20-2005, 05:54 AM

I was 23 he was 20 - It was Dei37, and I was his first as well. We're married and have been for 6 1/2 years. We weren't each other's last, but it's nice knowing we were the first. It was on Valentines Day in his parents basement guest room. His parents were home. I don't know what we were thinking except - I want sex, NOW.

healer · 10-20-2005, 07:10 AM

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Originally Posted by raeanna74

I don't know what we were thinking except - I want sex, NOW.

Amen sister!

Coppertop · 10-20-2005, 07:44 AM

Let's see, this was over 11 years ago:

I was 18, she was 21, both virgins. We did it on the living room floor of her parent's house. A documentary on the Mongols was playing on the television. It was... disappointing, yet I was relieved. She lived 3,000 miles from me at the time (I assume she still does). I had met her online, flew out to stay with her for a week or two, haven't seen or spoken to her since.

RCR · 10-20-2005, 10:35 AM

I was 19 she was 18,

Swedish, Blonde, blue eyes, long tanned legs, worth the wait.

joofoo · 10-20-2005, 12:03 PM

I was 18 and she was 17, it was the first time for both of us... we did it in my bedroom after having dated and done pretty much everything else the previous six months (we actually had been friends for the previous five years). This was in 1995, and we've been married for going on 11 years in January and have two wonderful kids.

holtmate · 10-20-2005, 01:45 PM

I was 19, she was 17, both virgins. It was awkward, but great. I had the chance with another girl earlier, but I'm glad I waited.

AVoiceOfReason · 10-20-2005, 08:18 PM

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Originally Posted by holtmate

I was 19, she was 17, both virgins. It was awkward, but great. I had the chance with another girl earlier, but I'm glad I waited.

Ok, but the original post asked about current contacts?

indebut · 10-20-2005, 10:24 PM

My 1st was my ex GF..we dated for the better part of 3 years. It's been 3 years since we broke up and we've both since married. I still talk to her every so often on messenger.

Sorceress · 10-20-2005, 11:01 PM

Sadly the first person I ever had sex with turned out to be such a jerk!
I thought I loved him too. But now I think I just wanted someone to love me. Anyway i haven't the vaguest idea what became of him, and I'm glad because he's probably doing better than he deserves and I don't want to know.

Sorceress · 10-20-2005, 11:02 PM

Wow, that sounds so bitter, please forgive that impression, I'm just tired. he was however not a very kind person, and hurt me quite terribly.

leftyderek · 10-20-2005, 11:26 PM

It was when I was 17. Got together with that girl after a week we met each other. Being pretty naive, I needed safety and security in the first year of my boarding school in Norway, alone and apparently not knowing anyone (I had been living in Hong Kong all my life before that)- and you know those crazy little impulses that, when someone is being extra nice to you when you feel helpless you easily fall for that person? That's what happened to me- then after a week we got together it was her birthday and she was drunk- being Finnish, it seemed like getting as drunk as you can on birthdays is an obligation. I had a few drink with her but sober enough to remember what happened that night. Then I had to take her to bed and it happened. It was good and all that at that moment then it turned into one of the biggest regrets of my life though. Around 3 months later we had a break and being so close to home she went back. After that week of break she came back and I found out she cheated on me. Somehow I tried to forget about this and try to stay with her but it turned out to be plain bad

edit: No, I don't have anything against Finns. One of my best friends is a Finn.

Sorry for the extra bit of information. Just that the topic reminds me of this.

Slightly off-topic: I am the first person whom my current girlfriend slept with. But once we were talking about me being the first person she has ever slept with (months after) and she was like 'yeah what's so important about who's the first one?' I just feel weird when I heard that. :-\

Sorceress · 10-20-2005, 11:35 PM

I don't mind the extra info at all. I like to learn about other people, and that is basically what happened to me, overly vulnerable ect.
I don't blame you at all for feeling wierd when she acted like being the first means nothing! Poor fellow! It is a big deal. it's a very special thing you can never get back, I so wish I had waited for someone else.
I'm sure though, that if you're as lovely as you sound, she'll look back and be grateful that her first time was with someone she could trust and who was good to her! It counts for so much!

Ella · 10-21-2005, 01:30 AM

My first was a gorgeous blonde man called Darren, when I was 16. No idea of surname and no idea of how old he was, but it was great. Never saw him again after that night, but it was a night to remember.....

Titan_Uranus · 10-21-2005, 03:18 AM

with my wife ,when we first started going out ,usual situation ,get horny ,sorry buddy rubber no love ,so l drive to the gas station to get some ,& the dude behind the counter puts the entire selection they got on the counter,tells me to choose a pack out of sheer embarrasment l grab a pack & head out,because by now l had an audience ,get back & get it on ,we finish & l'm busy pulling up my draws when her dad walks & asks what we up too , luckily he just woken up to go to the loo ,too drowzy to notice anything thank GOD 'cause he would have whipped my ass, we were both about 19 or 20.

ann · 10-21-2005, 03:52 AM

i was 15 and he was 16 it was in a tent on a camping holiday with his family, it hurt like hell and i cried later when i was alone. we had a child together about a year later got married he turned into an asshole so i left after 15 years of being together, now i look at my self and say "what the hell was i thinking' i think i just needed some one to love me.
now he cannot walk past my front gate intervention order!!!!
i think i should have waited, but u allways think these things when u look back.
my daughter is 16 now and she is a lot more sensible than me ( well i bloody hope so anyway)

nightstuff · 10-21-2005, 05:05 AM

Was with a girl in my first year of college, and I tried my best to pretend like It wasnt my first time. Remember spending focussed time trying to practice for the occassion (dont ask). I'm sure it was obvious anyway though, and she was this huge mindtrip that did her best to highlight my inexperience.

After the eventual breakup months later, we spoke with each other on the phone a number of times, and it always felt the same: her trying to reassure herself that she was still better -- too bad she found out from a friend that my rebound was this very hot model who showered me with affection. Talk about an ego boost.

She was right about one thing though... You never forget your first

leftyderek · 10-21-2005, 10:31 PM

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Originally Posted by Sorceress

I'm sure though, that if you're as lovely as you sound, she'll look back and be grateful that her first time was with someone she could trust and who was good to her! It counts for so much!

Me? Oh the girl who said 'it's not anything important' is still my girlfriend now... she doesn't have to look back yet

I'm still here for her. We're in kinda a long distance now though. I am in Uni in Canada and she's still in my former high school in Norway. I just hope, hmm, nothing will go wrong.

Sorceress · 10-21-2005, 11:30 PM

Me too! Good luck to the both of you! I hope you have a long and happy life together! And good luck in school!

SERPENT7 · 10-24-2005, 11:03 AM

My first time was in a graveyard.
On top of a monument slab.
I was just out of H.S., working at Kroger. (Thats where i met 'just call me KY' Kendra.) Yes that was actually her nick-name. Like the jelly.
Anyway, we worked nights together, and started talking, and eventualy we decided to go hang out at one of the local parks together. After the cops chased us out, (Park closed.) we went to a cemetary by my house and had sex.
It was miserable.
First off, i didn't get off.
Second, she didn't seem to care about that fact.
Third, i didn't realize it at the time but i was still smarting after the way my last g/f trashed me. (Explains why i went out with someone that might not have been the best choice.)\
I tried calling her after that, like we were dating or something, but she was not interested. Grrrr.
Things got steadily better after that, though.

Craven Morehead · 10-24-2005, 11:20 AM

We were both 19, at the end of the school year in college. Met at a party the weekend before. Instant sexual attraction. Fucked all night before a final. Both went our separate ways afterwards. Wouldn't mind seeing her now, just to see how her life turned out - of course this was over 30 years ago.

Sweetpea · 10-24-2005, 11:23 AM

i was 18, he was 18... we'd been dating for some time... it was pretty amazing, we had sex three times that first day we decided we we're going to the next level. He's got the cock of a porn star and loves watching porn and doing kinky things as much as i do... we're the perfect sexual match.

That was 6 years ago. We've been married for going on 4... so calculate 6 years of almost everyday sex....it's been likely over two thousand times since that first day...

So, i would say, my current contact with my 'first' is well... everyday and i wouldn't have it any other way

Sweetpea

Sorceress · 10-24-2005, 01:36 PM

Oh sweetpea! That is sooo wonderful! You hardly ever hear of anyone marrying their first anymore, much less being so happy about it! I am thrilled for you!

Eweser · 10-28-2005, 06:52 PM

My first (and only) is my husband. He's much older and like previous posts I was kinda like "what happened?". Man, did I hurt his feelings (not meaning to of course). The uncountable times after that have been incredible (going on five years of marriage, seven years of being together). Thank goodness we didn't give up. lol

Sorceress · 10-30-2005, 05:40 AM

See now, stories like this just make me smile and want to cry happy tears! I think it is so wonderful that a love like this can survive in this day and age! Congratulations to you both!

Scrub0 · 10-30-2005, 04:40 PM

she was 19, i was 17. we'd been friends for most of a year till we hooked up, then about a week after that we had sex. first time sucked, as did all but two of the times we did it. Haven't spoken to her in over a year now, and i really wouldn't want to again.

Sorceress · 10-30-2005, 04:47 PM

Oh, how sad, I am sorry to hear it. I know how you fell though my first time was terrible.

tec-9-7 · 10-30-2005, 05:24 PM

My story is a bit different I suspect. I am still friends with the woman I first had sex with. We were both 18 - she was my first and she told me I was her first. I later found out that she'd been sexually molested as a child and later raped by a man who was involved w/ her mother as a teenager. This was something she only came to admit to herself many years later. I was her first "with love" as she (much later) put it. We met when we were both 17 years old in college - dated for a couple of years - parted ways for many years, then got back together. It would have been a real fairy-tale, except we recently split up. She is now a lesbian, tho I really can't bring myself to have much in the way of ill-will toward her. I certainly still care about her and hope she finds happiness w/ someone.

noodle · 10-30-2005, 05:52 PM

Last year, my ex. My only. Met him on a Sunday (11 hour first date, fairly amazing), spent several nights together and slept together Friday. Pretty embarrassing as I was sleeping and woke up halfway through the foreplay, so I was out of it most of the time. He kinda, umm... wilted... after a bit because he knew it was painful, so we just curled up against each other and slept. We made up for it over and over and over again.

We separated for six months and tried dating again awhile back and in July he decided we should just be friends... I was hurt and pissed, but gave it a shot and actually he's still one of my closest friends. And I'm not sorry I waited... geez, the idiots I run into over the weekends I wouldn't touch with a ten foot pole. /me shudders

CandleInTheDark · 10-30-2005, 08:09 PM

I was 18, she was 21. I knew her for a few weeks, found her completely annoying, though physically attractive. When I first met her she bragged she could "teach me a thing or two".

She moved into my friends living room. I was over one night, just the 3 of us. She spent the whole night bitching about virgins before coming to sit on my lap.

After my friend went upstairs it involved such things as "I'm not having sex with you tonight" to "where's the condoms".

She tried to hook up a few more times but it never worked out.

Sorceress · 10-31-2005, 07:23 AM

What a bittersweet story. I too hope she finds happiness with someone, and you too! You sound like a very understanding man, women crave that I think, so don't despair!

Doos · 10-31-2005, 01:26 PM

my first time partner is getting married next year. We're still good friends tho.

dublhelix · 11-01-2005, 05:06 AM

i was 14, she was 14. i met her at adventrue world, which is a weak version of....dreamworld... or alton towers for you english people. she lived over an hours drive away, so id go over hers and stay the night....

after doing it i thought "it has to be better than this." we broke up after... she smoked and im mildly asmatic... i HATE the taste of smoke.

im not in contact with her any more. however, im in contact with one of her friends... im going to a party which shes going to be at in bout a week.... ive lost a LOT of weight and bulked up, and im going to bring my VERY attractive gf, should be interesting to see her reaction.

tecoyah · 11-01-2005, 05:51 AM

Hmmm....whether or not to share......

She was My Babysitter....I was 8.....Ahhhhh, Young Love....heh

10-15-2005, 06:43 AM	#41 (permalink)
fresnelly Functionally Appropriate Location: Toronto	We were both 19 and in University. We weren't even dating but went back to my dorm room after a drunken night out with a bunch of classmates. I'm not proud of myself and I look back on the ensuing relationship as sort of a 2 week one night stand that I initiated. I was feeling pretty guilty by the 2nd week because it was clear to me that I wasn't interested in her, so I told her I didn't think it was right to keep having sex. That part I am proud of. After that I felt better but was only able to stick out the relationship for another week and broke it off. I run into her a couple times a year because we work in the same industry. She is married to another of our old classmates and I think I'm more akward about it than she is. #2 is my lovely wife. Is it wrong to wish my first had been this girl I had a crush on in highschool? __________________ Building an artificial intelligence that appreciates Mozart is easy. Building an A.I. that appreciates a theme restaurant is the real challenge - Kit Roebuck - Nine Planets Without Intelligent Life

10-15-2005, 08:37 AM	#42 (permalink)
shesus Fancy Location: Chicago	Fresnelly, I think most of us look back and wish we had slept with someone in our past that we didn't. Either that or you and I are alone in that wishing __________________ Whatever did happen to your soul? I heard you sold it Choose Heaven for the weather and Hell for the company

10-15-2005, 05:26 PM	#43 (permalink)
HoneyPot Crazy Location: Nunya	My first and I are still friends. All I remember is how it hurt like a bitch when we did it. I cried so much.... haha Now I'm like, what happened? I'm glad we are still really close. We dated for three years. I was almost twenty when I lost my virginity. __________________ Beauty is in the Eye of the Beholder.

10-16-2005, 11:31 AM	#46 (permalink)
Shadefire Upright Location: Madison, WI	I lost my virginity 2 days before my 19th b-day and he was 33. It was to my married priest in a one night stand. He's really my pagan priest/teacher and he just hadn't gotten divorced yet, but they had been separated for years. I really wanted to see what sex was like and he took the task on as just another thing to teach me. It was a good experience and I'm glad I did it. Having since gotten to know the truth of him a little better, I can see that at the time it was all he was actually good for. He's a lot better now and in a good and loving relationship. __________________ I was covered in blood, but it wasn't mine, so it was okay. - Anita Blake

10-20-2005, 05:54 AM	#48 (permalink)
raeanna74 I'm not a blonde! I'm knot! I'm knot! I'm knot! Location: Upper Michigan	I was 23 he was 20 - It was Dei37, and I was his first as well. We're married and have been for 6 1/2 years. We weren't each other's last, but it's nice knowing we were the first. It was on Valentines Day in his parents basement guest room. His parents were home. I don't know what we were thinking except - I want sex, NOW. __________________ "Always learn the rules so that you can break them properly." Dalai Lama My Karma just ran over your Dogma.

10-15-2005, 06:05 PM	#44 (permalink)
Mugzy6 Tilted Location: North Carolina	Absolute jackass LOL. But each time it has gotten better ever since. Now I'm with a man that I love and really do want to marry and we have great sex. A lot hehe.

10-15-2005, 07:25 PM	#45 (permalink)
radioguy Registered User Location: Texas	my first was with my wife about a month before we got married. we're not married anymore, but we still talk.

10-20-2005, 05:14 AM	#47 (permalink)
dkocolin Upright	started seeing a lovely redheaded girl the end of the summer, we're both 19, not dating. hooked up twice on the beach, she went to italy on vacation while i went back to college, when she came back she visited at school and it happened

10-20-2005, 07:44 AM	#50 (permalink)
Coppertop Getting Medieval on your ass Location: 13th century Europe	Let's see, this was over 11 years ago: I was 18, she was 21, both virgins. We did it on the living room floor of her parent's house. A documentary on the Mongols was playing on the television. It was... disappointing, yet I was relieved. She lived 3,000 miles from me at the time (I assume she still does). I had met her online, flew out to stay with her for a week or two, haven't seen or spoken to her since.

10-20-2005, 10:35 AM	#51 (permalink)
RCR Crazy	I was 19 she was 18, Swedish, Blonde, blue eyes, long tanned legs, worth the wait.

10-20-2005, 12:03 PM	#52 (permalink)
joofoo Just A Guy Location: Kansas City, Missouri	I was 18 and she was 17, it was the first time for both of us... we did it in my bedroom after having dated and done pretty much everything else the previous six months (we actually had been friends for the previous five years). This was in 1995, and we've been married for going on 11 years in January and have two wonderful kids. __________________ - joofoo

10-20-2005, 01:45 PM	#53 (permalink)
holtmate Flailing White Boy Location: Cincinnati	I was 19, she was 17, both virgins. It was awkward, but great. I had the chance with another girl earlier, but I'm glad I waited. __________________ "Give her your coat" "Why me?" "Because you're perfect." "You have a point there."

10-20-2005, 10:24 PM	#55 (permalink)
indebut Crazy Location: Ohio	My 1st was my ex GF..we dated for the better part of 3 years. It's been 3 years since we broke up and we've both since married. I still talk to her every so often on messenger.

10-20-2005, 11:01 PM	#56 (permalink)
Sorceress Upright	Sadly the first person I ever had sex with turned out to be such a jerk! I thought I loved him too. But now I think I just wanted someone to love me. Anyway i haven't the vaguest idea what became of him, and I'm glad because he's probably doing better than he deserves and I don't want to know. __________________ Born of mist and dreams, chapters from an alternate mind.

10-20-2005, 11:02 PM	#57 (permalink)
Sorceress Upright	Wow, that sounds so bitter, please forgive that impression, I'm just tired. he was however not a very kind person, and hurt me quite terribly. __________________ Born of mist and dreams, chapters from an alternate mind.

10-20-2005, 11:26 PM	#58 (permalink)
leftyderek Crazy Location: Currently Canada. I have been in Norway in the last two years, and in Hong Kong before Norway.	It was when I was 17. Got together with that girl after a week we met each other. Being pretty naive, I needed safety and security in the first year of my boarding school in Norway, alone and apparently not knowing anyone (I had been living in Hong Kong all my life before that)- and you know those crazy little impulses that, when someone is being extra nice to you when you feel helpless you easily fall for that person? That's what happened to me- then after a week we got together it was her birthday and she was drunk- being Finnish, it seemed like getting as drunk as you can on birthdays is an obligation. I had a few drink with her but sober enough to remember what happened that night. Then I had to take her to bed and it happened. It was good and all that at that moment then it turned into one of the biggest regrets of my life though. Around 3 months later we had a break and being so close to home she went back. After that week of break she came back and I found out she cheated on me. Somehow I tried to forget about this and try to stay with her but it turned out to be plain bad edit: No, I don't have anything against Finns. One of my best friends is a Finn. Sorry for the extra bit of information. Just that the topic reminds me of this. Slightly off-topic: I am the first person whom my current girlfriend slept with. But once we were talking about me being the first person she has ever slept with (months after) and she was like 'yeah what's so important about who's the first one?' I just feel weird when I heard that. :-\

10-20-2005, 11:35 PM	#59 (permalink)
Sorceress Upright	I don't mind the extra info at all. I like to learn about other people, and that is basically what happened to me, overly vulnerable ect. I don't blame you at all for feeling wierd when she acted like being the first means nothing! Poor fellow! It is a big deal. it's a very special thing you can never get back, I so wish I had waited for someone else. I'm sure though, that if you're as lovely as you sound, she'll look back and be grateful that her first time was with someone she could trust and who was good to her! It counts for so much! __________________ Born of mist and dreams, chapters from an alternate mind.

10-21-2005, 01:30 AM	#60 (permalink)
Ella Ella Bo Bella Location: Australia	My first was a gorgeous blonde man called Darren, when I was 16. No idea of surname and no idea of how old he was, but it was great. Never saw him again after that night, but it was a night to remember..... __________________ "Afterwards, the universe will explode for your pleasure."

10-21-2005, 03:18 AM	#61 (permalink)
Titan_Uranus Insane Location: South Africa	with my wife ,when we first started going out ,usual situation ,get horny ,sorry buddy rubber no love ,so l drive to the gas station to get some ,& the dude behind the counter puts the entire selection they got on the counter,tells me to choose a pack out of sheer embarrasment l grab a pack & head out,because by now l had an audience ,get back & get it on ,we finish & l'm busy pulling up my draws when her dad walks & asks what we up too , luckily he just woken up to go to the loo ,too drowzy to notice anything thank GOD 'cause he would have whipped my ass, we were both about 19 or 20.

10-21-2005, 03:52 AM	#62 (permalink)
ann Upright	i was 15 and he was 16 it was in a tent on a camping holiday with his family, it hurt like hell and i cried later when i was alone. we had a child together about a year later got married he turned into an asshole so i left after 15 years of being together, now i look at my self and say "what the hell was i thinking' i think i just needed some one to love me. now he cannot walk past my front gate intervention order!!!! i think i should have waited, but u allways think these things when u look back. my daughter is 16 now and she is a lot more sensible than me ( well i bloody hope so anyway)

10-21-2005, 05:05 AM	#63 (permalink)
nightstuff Tilted Location: where polar bears walk the streets	Was with a girl in my first year of college, and I tried my best to pretend like It wasnt my first time. Remember spending focussed time trying to practice for the occassion (dont ask). I'm sure it was obvious anyway though, and she was this huge mindtrip that did her best to highlight my inexperience. After the eventual breakup months later, we spoke with each other on the phone a number of times, and it always felt the same: her trying to reassure herself that she was still better -- too bad she found out from a friend that my rebound was this very hot model who showered me with affection. Talk about an ego boost. She was right about one thing though... You never forget your first

10-21-2005, 11:30 PM	#65 (permalink)
Sorceress Upright	Me too! Good luck to the both of you! I hope you have a long and happy life together! And good luck in school! __________________ Born of mist and dreams, chapters from an alternate mind.

10-24-2005, 11:03 AM	#66 (permalink)
SERPENT7 Crazy Location: Gold country!	My first time was in a graveyard. On top of a monument slab. I was just out of H.S., working at Kroger. (Thats where i met 'just call me KY' Kendra.) Yes that was actually her nick-name. Like the jelly. Anyway, we worked nights together, and started talking, and eventualy we decided to go hang out at one of the local parks together. After the cops chased us out, (Park closed.) we went to a cemetary by my house and had sex. It was miserable. First off, i didn't get off. Second, she didn't seem to care about that fact. Third, i didn't realize it at the time but i was still smarting after the way my last g/f trashed me. (Explains why i went out with someone that might not have been the best choice.)\ I tried calling her after that, like we were dating or something, but she was not interested. Grrrr. Things got steadily better after that, though.

10-24-2005, 11:20 AM	#67 (permalink)
Craven Morehead Custom User Title	We were both 19, at the end of the school year in college. Met at a party the weekend before. Instant sexual attraction. Fucked all night before a final. Both went our separate ways afterwards. Wouldn't mind seeing her now, just to see how her life turned out - of course this was over 30 years ago.

10-24-2005, 11:23 AM	#68 (permalink)
Sweetpea Fade out Location: in love	i was 18, he was 18... we'd been dating for some time... it was pretty amazing, we had sex three times that first day we decided we we're going to the next level. He's got the cock of a porn star and loves watching porn and doing kinky things as much as i do... we're the perfect sexual match. That was 6 years ago. We've been married for going on 4... so calculate 6 years of almost everyday sex....it's been likely over two thousand times since that first day... So, i would say, my current contact with my 'first' is well... everyday and i wouldn't have it any other way Sweetpea __________________ Having a Pet Will Change Your Life! Looking for a great pet?! Click Here! "I am the Type of Person Who Can Get Away With A lot, Simply Because I Don't Ask Permission for the Privilege of Being Myself"

10-24-2005, 01:36 PM	#69 (permalink)
Sorceress Upright	Oh sweetpea! That is sooo wonderful! You hardly ever hear of anyone marrying their first anymore, much less being so happy about it! I am thrilled for you! __________________ Born of mist and dreams, chapters from an alternate mind.

10-28-2005, 06:52 PM	#70 (permalink)
Eweser Psycho Location: O-K-L-A-H-O-M-A	My first (and only) is my husband. He's much older and like previous posts I was kinda like "what happened?". Man, did I hurt his feelings (not meaning to of course). The uncountable times after that have been incredible (going on five years of marriage, seven years of being together). Thank goodness we didn't give up. lol __________________ "Whoever wrote this episode should die!"

10-30-2005, 05:40 AM	#71 (permalink)
Sorceress Upright	See now, stories like this just make me smile and want to cry happy tears! I think it is so wonderful that a love like this can survive in this day and age! Congratulations to you both! __________________ Born of mist and dreams, chapters from an alternate mind.

10-30-2005, 04:40 PM	#72 (permalink)
Scrub0 Insane	she was 19, i was 17. we'd been friends for most of a year till we hooked up, then about a week after that we had sex. first time sucked, as did all but two of the times we did it. Haven't spoken to her in over a year now, and i really wouldn't want to again.

10-30-2005, 04:47 PM	#73 (permalink)
Sorceress Upright	Oh, how sad, I am sorry to hear it. I know how you fell though my first time was terrible. __________________ Born of mist and dreams, chapters from an alternate mind.

10-30-2005, 05:24 PM	#74 (permalink)
tec-9-7 Insane Location: Rainy Washington	My story is a bit different I suspect. I am still friends with the woman I first had sex with. We were both 18 - she was my first and she told me I was her first. I later found out that she'd been sexually molested as a child and later raped by a man who was involved w/ her mother as a teenager. This was something she only came to admit to herself many years later. I was her first "with love" as she (much later) put it. We met when we were both 17 years old in college - dated for a couple of years - parted ways for many years, then got back together. It would have been a real fairy-tale, except we recently split up. She is now a lesbian, tho I really can't bring myself to have much in the way of ill-will toward her. I certainly still care about her and hope she finds happiness w/ someone.

10-30-2005, 08:09 PM	#76 (permalink)
CandleInTheDark Addict Location: Where the music's loudest	I was 18, she was 21. I knew her for a few weeks, found her completely annoying, though physically attractive. When I first met her she bragged she could "teach me a thing or two". She moved into my friends living room. I was over one night, just the 3 of us. She spent the whole night bitching about virgins before coming to sit on my lap. After my friend went upstairs it involved such things as "I'm not having sex with you tonight" to "where's the condoms". She tried to hook up a few more times but it never worked out. __________________ Where there is doubt there is freedom.

10-31-2005, 07:23 AM	#77 (permalink)
Sorceress Upright	What a bittersweet story. I too hope she finds happiness with someone, and you too! You sound like a very understanding man, women crave that I think, so don't despair! __________________ Born of mist and dreams, chapters from an alternate mind.

10-31-2005, 01:26 PM	#78 (permalink)
Doos Crazy Location: South Africa	my first time partner is getting married next year. We're still good friends tho. __________________ Don't be alarmed, I'm an African. Conscience is what hurts when everything else feels good.

11-01-2005, 05:06 AM	#79 (permalink)
dublhelix Upright	i was 14, she was 14. i met her at adventrue world, which is a weak version of....dreamworld... or alton towers for you english people. she lived over an hours drive away, so id go over hers and stay the night.... after doing it i thought "it has to be better than this." we broke up after... she smoked and im mildly asmatic... i HATE the taste of smoke. im not in contact with her any more. however, im in contact with one of her friends... im going to a party which shes going to be at in bout a week.... ive lost a LOT of weight and bulked up, and im going to bring my VERY attractive gf, should be interesting to see her reaction. __________________ A Freudian slip. Where you say one thing and mean your mother....