simivin

Well, for years I've wondered what it felt like for the opposite sex (women) to have sex. Perhaps it's just the fact that I know I can't experience it which makes me even more curious and it's an experience I'll forever miss out on. However, I was wondering:

- How close vaginal sex is to anal sex?
- How is it different? Is it completely different?
- What is the same? Are there some sensations/feelings that are shared, even if it is different?

Just curious if any of the ladies out there, who have experience with both, could share their thoughts. Thanks --

Sim

MageB420666

Anal sex will be different for men and women just from a biological stand point, so you wouldn't be able to have anal sex and know what it feels like for a woman to have anal or vaginal sex.

As far as I understand it; Men recieve physical pleasure from anal sex because it stimulates the prostate gland. Women do not have a prostate gland, the reason it feels good to them is because there is only a fairly thin section of flesh seperating the vagina from their colon/lower intestine/whatever that area is. So when they have an object inserted, it stimulates the nerves of the vagina, but in a different way than it does when something is inserted into the vagina.

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simivin

I realize that; I was just curious if there were any other sensations that might be comprable, ie having something there, etc...

bad jane

keep in mind, that a lot of this will vary by person, but this is my experience.

typically, anal is more different than alike compared to vaginal. however, this can vary depending on positioning. anal with my partner behind me provides a completely different sensation than vaginal with my partner facing me--but anal with my partner facing me is actually quite similar to vaginal in the same position. (i would guess this has something to do with the fact he's stimulating the rest of my body in similar ways.)

anal is much tighter, so the physical sensation of something in me is much greater than what i get with vaginal sex. i also really enjoy that first thrust during vaginal sex--the sensation of my partner pushing into me and my body stretching to accomodate him. with anal, that sensation is stronger and lasts for several thrusts rather than just the initial one.

it's not the same, but to give you an idea of what i mean, pucker your lips together very tightly and push your finger into your mouth. you natural reaction once your finger is in, is to relax you lips to accomodate it. even relaxed, your lips are warm and clingy around your finger--you can feel the finger entering your mouth, but once your lips relax after that initial push it isn't nearly as tight--that's vaginal. now curl your lips inward around your teeth and push your finger in. your lips don't relax as much because you are pushing them against your teeth, so your lips still feel really tight with your finger pushing in and out. that initial tightness and feeling of something entering your mouth remains--that's anal.

skier

I wonder how many other people have a wet finger now...

Very illustrative explanation bad jane

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ShaniFaye

Anal hurts like hell, worse than childbirth did (to me any way) and vaginal doesnt thats the best I can do for you

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Silvy

Exactly the same thought I had!
(i.e. that makes at least 2 )

But it's a very informative description.

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abaya

Vaginal feels like something is filling me up inside, but not unpleasantly. I, too, love that first moment of entry... especially if I'm good and wet, or lubed up. It is soooo nice to have my ktspktsp inside me. There's nothing really to compare it with... it's just nice to have a part of someone else inside me, where he fits very nicely.

On the other hand, we've tried anal a few times and I have to admit, it's not too pleasant for me. And I wanted to enjoy it, believe me! But it really just feels like I have a big log stuck in my asshole, and I don't really get any nice sensations out of it. I also don't feel as intimate with my bf as I do during vaginal, since we're trying so hard to be careful, etc., instead of just giving ourselves in the passion and movement of vaginal.

Now, I love being rimmed and tongue-fucked, and my bf likes receiving anal himself, but I really prefer vaginal to anal. That hole is made for a penis!

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Mr Honest

it depends on the pussy and ass in question.
I've been inside tight pussies it seemed the lady was a virgin (she wasn't!). I've been one female anus which wasn't tight.

I don't like anal sex much - I find it hard to let go because I don't want to hurt someone I'm with and don't want the condom to split either.

But anal does feel more exciting and dangerous than a pussy because it's more forbidden and less common.

it's going to depend on your fantasies as well. If you think about anal a lot then you will be more turned on and eager to do it.

You still feel you are inside someone and get that wonderful sense of closeness and excitement/ trust whether you are in their bum or pussy

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doncalypso

From a male perspective I gotta say that penetrating a woman in the ass feels so much tighter than penetrating her in her pussy. The good thing about anal is that a woman has more fine control over her anal muscles so she can milk the cock better, and also she won't get pregnant if you cum in her ass.

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