Cyber Sex (Your Opinion)
 

Well ive thought about it but never really seen any interest in it, kind of seems stupid really.

Has anyone on here had it, Was it good?, Or is it just stupid?

All opinions Appreciated

Stupid. Plain and simple. It's just another alternate for kids underage to have "sex" without being caught

It's more fun when it's with someone you actually know or have been talking to for a long time (not meaning a few hours). When you randomly look for cybersex, there is a very large chance the person isn't who they say they are or even what sex they say they are.

On top of that, it turns out most people can't type or form coherent sentances. It's hard to get off on someone (potentially a 40 year old man) saying "I wanna lik ur cock"

Does absolutely nothing for me....I prefer "hands on" sex :)

I'm definitely with ShaniFaye on this one, these digits would rather touching skin than plastic keys. :)

I used to mess around with it. It never did anything for me, but I got to practice erotic writing and that was fun. It is also hilarious to see the guys go mmmmmmmmmmmm, ye babby thay fels god!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I wna my dic dep in yur pusy!!!!

I find it quite dull, though it can be entertaining as hell sometimes... One night, I was bored in my hotel room, and didn't block an instant message... this Don Juan type, who thought he was oh so smooth (and probably a pimply faced 14 year old glancing over his shoulder to make sure that the babysitter wasnt looking) was hitting on me...

i think i said i was wearing stilletto fluffy slippers, and a silk teddy, (yeah, i travel with them in my laptop bag) I poured it on thick (as a hobby, I write erotica occassionally, and he got some of my best B material - I wasn't even giving him the good stuff()... and oh gawd he was making me just so hot - -oh i wanted him - yeah baby right here right now... Truth was - i was also VPNed into a customer site, talking on the phone with a customer while trying to recover a database from a server that tanked...

Cyber sex is fun...

If you're at a party with six people looking over your shoulder and you're doing it as a form of entertainment. I used to be able to carry on several cyber sessions at a time...but only to make myself and others laugh.

Try keeping multiple cyber sessions when in half of them you are male, and in the other half you are female.

The ensuing confusions cause great hilarity and confusion to all that read :lol:

these comments make me seriously wonder if anyone is really having cyber sex -- or are they just doing it for entertainment value :)

Well, things are a little different from the perspective of a long-distance relationship. Ktspktsp and I have been apart for over 2 months and it's a real drag when you haven't seen or touched that person in so long. Cyber and phone sex are all we get, when we actually have the technology available for communication (which wasn't there for weeks at a time, when I was in Zambia).

And yeah, it can get old, but until we are together again, what can we do? It's healthy to think sexual thoughts about your partner when they are far away, and if cyber or phone sex helps, why not? My only concern is when it becomes the topic of every conversation (or when other topics don't get enough attention), so we have to be careful with that sometimes. It is hard sometimes to talk about sex all the time but not be able to act on it, so I guess sometimes I'd just rather not. I dunno. Depends on the couple.

There's a big difference from being in a relationship with someone and using technology as a means of communication... to a random 'hookup then hangup' on the internet where you don't know the person, and that person can be anyone.

You know, I had that same thought as I was reading this...:hmm:

/me raises an eyebrow...

Firewalls.... clusters... Nodes... Backups... Disaster recovery... restore this, baby...

oh baby.. .oh oh oh ooooooh...

Gawd, I need a cold shower now...

Oooooh, Baby...that makes me so hot!!


:hmm:
Sorry...couldn't resist. :lol:

see that was so hot I ... ahem... came before you... :lol:

Now y'all have got my panties in a bunch!
Oh, wait, that's not sexy, is it?
Hm. Sorry.

:D

for the most part, i consider it entertainment. however, that is assuming we are talking about random instant messages to random people. it's just funny.

in a relationship, it's different. while it is nothing like sex in the flesh, cyber sex is a great alternative if sex isn't possible. and a nice way to add some mild spice to your relationship even if sex could be happening later that night. it's an interactive fantasy with your partner and imo, a great way to connect.

I've only ever done it for entertainment, except once with my wife when I was away for a month. Even then, we mostly used the phone.

I never really got the point of it. If I want words, I'll read or write erotica. Cybersex is so non interactive when it's two random people, you may as well just watch some porn.

Does using WebCams count as Cyber Sex? I think if people want the experience they have to have some sort of visual. At least guys have to. Most women's playboys are there Cosmo's. I guess its more of an imagination thing for the opposite sex.

I once had a string of cybersex encounters with a girl in Germany. It was fun for a brief period of time. But in the end it always came down to me jacking myself off, it quickly lost it's appeal since I can do that on my own without having to talk to someone.

not done it.i imagine it is alil like porn..or readin an erotic story.i can see how it can turn one on!! :) not a patch on the reeal thing not to state the obvious

Oh my god. I can't bleieve nobody's posted this yet: http://www.goyk.com/text.asp?id=135

Warning: That site might be porn lidden. It was the first relevant google hit for "bloodninja cybersex", which is what I was looking for.

A cyber session I had with some guy (I'm tiredofsleep0, and the atrocious typing was on purpose)

tiredofsleep0: hey do u wanana cybar???
emoskater515: ok
tiredofsleep0: ok i will start
tiredofsleep0: u are in ur bed
tiredofsleep0: i lay on top of u and kiss u
tiredofsleep0: mm itz getting hot in hurr
tiredofsleep0: ono my mom walkz in!!!1
tiredofsleep0: hello luver r u their?
emoskater515: o sry
emoskater515: my turn?
tiredofsleep0: ya u go now
emoskater515: you take my shirt of
tiredofsleep0: mmm ya wat a sexy bod
emoskater515: off
emoskater515: u put ur hands down my pants
tiredofsleep0: o wow it is so big i am good sex horny
emoskater515: i take my pants down
emoskater515: u do the same
tiredofsleep0: i tell u to bite my niples and call me a good littel butchers daughter
emoskater515: i do it
tiredofsleep0: omg taht is so hot
tiredofsleep0: do me now and maek it ruough
emoskater515: i take my dick and rud it around ur clit
tiredofsleep0: mmmm ya thatz hot
tiredofsleep0: I can see the Rock of Gibraltar from my home!
tiredofsleep0: wait ignore taht
emoskater515: i turn u over and fuck u up the butt
tiredofsleep0: mmmm ya i luv that!!!
tiredofsleep0: i ask u to take off my hi heel and stab me w/ it
emoskater515: o yea
tiredofsleep0: now i ask u to cum in my ass and punch me in teh back of teh head rite when u come
emoskater515: i ask u to suck my dick
tiredofsleep0: i ask u to dress up like a klingon from star track adn say "u will be assimilated"
emoskater515: and i do
emoskater515: then i get back in the bed with you
tiredofsleep0: mmm ya
emoskater515: and shove so hard you skream
tiredofsleep0: tehn i ask u 2 sing "i just died in ur arms tonight" and burn me w/ teh cigarette lighter from ur car
emoskater515: then i ask u to grab my dick
tiredofsleep0: i grab ur dick, wut now mastar
emoskater515: yea
tiredofsleep0: ya
tiredofsleep0: where r u?!?!? come back
tiredofsleep0: i love you
emoskater515: i love u to
tiredofsleep0: i have a questoin for u
emoskater515: ok
tiredofsleep0: wut would u do if u were at ur friendz house and u were watchign a porn and he strated jacking off wut would u do????
emoskater515: look away
tiredofsleep0: wut if he asked u to touch his dick then what would u do whjat would u do???/???
emoskater515: punch him in the face
tiredofsleep0: o
tiredofsleep0: hey i haev another question for u
emoskater515: ok
tiredofsleep0: wut if u were just in ur room sleeping in ur bed and all of a sudden ur friend came in and turned on the tv realaly loud and starting jacking off over u and came on u and he said "i like manatees" then what would u do
tiredofsleep0: where r u come back i miss u!!!
tiredofsleep0: i love you

I don't really see a purpose in cybersex, but some people find it a turn-on....to each their own, I guess!

I completely agree. I think it definitely adds something, and I wouldn't mind doing it even I wasn't so far away from my partner. I've actually never done cyber with anyone other than my SO, so I can't comment on its effectiveness or entertainment value... for me, it has always had important emotional value. Spice is good!

Hmm, side question: has anyone done cybersex while their partner is next to them physically? As it, a virtual threesome... wonder how strange/interesting that would be...

Well, she wasn't my partner, but we're really tight. We were really bored in comp sci class. So we started cybering with each other. Until the comp sci teacher decided to make his round around the class.

That brought an abrupt halt to that :D


And to the person who posted the bloodninja cyber - I love the first one. "I put on my robe and wizard hat" haha.

Yea that! ive had phone sex with someone i know, that was erotic.

Without divulging names and so forth, I had a hot wet cyber fling with a stud from tfp - who really knew how to push my button and get this lady off while on-line. Blew my mind as it was extremely hot & wilder than I ever expected. Sounds strange, but I dug it Big Time and miss our notes now that he's moved on. For me it was very liberating and creative.

Shesus and I used to use Excite chat. It was an avatar chat. We used an avatar of Divine and would go into the sex rooms and then have fun with people. Oddly enough, there were moments when we would get PMs from guys who seriously thought Divine was a woman. What could we do but go with it?

i have a few funny ones too... like i gave this guy a nice surprise. He was spamming in a chat room that was for a completely different topic, and he was being creepy, so i decided to teach him a lesson.
Note: it's a bit graphic at the end and may go against your beliefs. Also i pretend to be a minor to see if that will deter him.

LOL ManWithAPlan....I can only imagine the reaction from the other end of the connection.

Never tried it. I really can't see the point. All it can lead to is sexual frustration, or one forearm being much larger than the other.

Cyber sex is downright stupid. But as I write that I must give credit where is is due; it must require a lot of skill to be able to type and masterbate at the same time. Still if you are going to your computer to masterbate maybe something if not quite cooking in your kitchen and you should communicate with your chef a little better.

Doesn't it bother the person having cybersex that so many others at this time are having mind blowing orgasms TOGETHER, skin to skin. Would it be to bold to say that they are too chicken to go out and tell someone face to face what they really want and need to get off. Fuck people not keyboards.

So what, you're just one person and you have one limited opinion.

can be amusing
 

I can't honestly say that I havne't ever attempted to get my groove on in the cyber world... :hmm:
But in most cases I found myself laughing so much at the things we would send back and forth...
Somehow someone typing "Pull out your cock so I can suck it!" just doesn't have the same impact as the real deal!...hahahaha :lol:
I do enjoy talking about sex and get turned big time when I have a sexual conversation. :D
But for me the real deal is the only way to go! :thumbsup:

Of course, all of us would rather be having sex with a real person in the flesh... that's not the issue (at least, with most people I know who have cyber or phone sex). It's when there are no other options that it becomes an outlet.

Have you ever been in a long-distance relationship? I've been away from my man for 2.5 months now, and this is all we've got. So it's not "downright stupid." I find it very lame that you think all people having cybersex are losers in a bad relationship. Open your mind and actually read people's responses here.

Is there a difference between cyber sex and interactive erotica?

I ask because the "aww yah baby, do it to me like that" does nothing for me, and is just silly.

But, when it's like writing erotica back and forth and is well written, then I will freely admit to enjoying that. Perhaps more the second time reading it though.

cellophane, imo you're describing cyber twice, but one is just more mature and works better.

i cybered once when i was a teenager and it wasn't too great. i mean, i was a virgin at the time so it was a lot better than pretending the girl i was thinking of was speaking to me, but it was still pretty lame.

Good point. Abaya :icare: and I use proper spelling and grammar :thumbsup: . However we both agree that capitals are not important :lol:.

I don't think I could take it seriously enough to actually do it. I'm of the mind that if you can get off without hurting anyone than you're doing all right so if this is what spins your record than by all means go for it. But then I've been in a long distance relationship for quite a while now (the girl is just starting her 4th semester) and we've only just worked our way up to phone sex. There's been discussion of adding webcams to the mix, we reckon it'd be nice to be able to see each other, but we haven't actually gotten that far since she's a poor student and I'm just plain poor.