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Agent_Orange 09-02-2005 09:14 PM

I think condoms in our age are more about the partner getting pregnant, opposed to the STD reasoning. People are scared of STD's but they are REALLY SCARED of having a kid.

LoganSnake 09-02-2005 09:18 PM

I have had unprotected sex before with my ex. Went through the pregnancy scare. Don't want to do it again.

wraithhibn 09-02-2005 09:58 PM

I've been bad recently and had it a few times. I hadn't had unprotected in about 3 years before recently. I'd forgotten how great it was until after the moment.

Prince 09-03-2005 08:10 AM

I've rarely had protected sex. I've relied solely on her birth control pills.

Dumb? Maybe. But if I were to wear a rubber, it'd feel better to just jack off.

Bill O'Rights 09-03-2005 08:35 AM

A. I grew up in the 70's. In those days, if you "caught" something, a shot in the ass would clear it up.

B. I have two kids.

C. Safe to assume that...yes, I have had unprotected sex.

Disfigured_J 09-03-2005 11:29 AM

Yes,with a couple girls. Both were on birth control and one had been tested. However, the other was rather promiscuous, and we did it on several occassions. In retrospect, bad decision.

Acetylene 09-03-2005 06:44 PM

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raeanna74 09-03-2005 07:10 PM

We have one child - so YES.

As for unprotected meaning - condomless - yess but we've both been tested more than once. Otherwise I've always been on the pill except when I got pregnant with our daughter. After this week I won't need pills to prevent pregnancy so protection will only be for disease protection and I won't need that with my hubby.

cellophanedeity 09-03-2005 10:39 PM

I'm on the pill, we are eachother's firsts, and we really trust eachother.

We're not worried at all.

zVp 09-04-2005 07:32 AM

Don't be a fool, wrap your tool.

God I love that saying. But for now, I'm going protected. But that's "for now." Heh.

Justsomeguy 09-04-2005 08:38 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Prince
I've rarely had protected sex. I've relied solely on her birth control pills.

Dumb? Maybe. But if I were to wear a rubber, it'd feel better to just jack off.

If your concern is pregnancy, birth control pills are very reliant. So that is not exactly unprotected. I know quite a few of oral contraceptives give up to 99.9% +/- .1 s.d. That it quite abit more effective than most condoms. Of course if herpes is the concern...

To answer the question, no. And parents that do not get their daughters on birth control or teach their boys how to use condoms should be beaten within half an inch of their lives. Parents that pressure/force/allow their 14-16 year old daughters go through with a pregnancy should be beaten that extra half an inch.

doncalypso 09-15-2005 06:10 AM

I've had plenty of unprotected sex with my ex while we were together.... We were in a committed monogamous relationship for 3 years and 7 months, and we'd both been tested on more than one occasion and turned out disease-free.

Nancy 09-16-2005 01:18 AM

Yes I have. But only with people I knew was 100% disease-free..

air45 09-16-2005 06:50 AM

a condom rubber make my penis feel numb to sex pleasure! i will not wear this on my erection because the love feeling go away.

yes, there is disease to catch, but i still need to feel the moist vagina on the penis! (or sometimes the anal hole!)

sailor 09-17-2005 12:12 AM

Yeah. My girlfriend and I are in a monogamous relationship, and she's on the pill. So yeah, pretty much all the time it's unprotected, at least in terms of condoms.

Val_1 09-17-2005 10:14 AM

Yes, but that was back in hi school (10 years ago). Now I'm single, so back to condoms for me. Haven't used them in so long, don't know if i'll remember how. Fun fun fun.

Rubyee 09-17-2005 10:21 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by onesnowyowl
In terms of STD-risk, my current partner and I do not use condoms. We have both been tested, we are monogamous, and as I am on a reliable form of birth control we see no need to keep using condoms.


Ding ding ding!

Same here. So I voted yes. Every form of protection has it flaws and tiny, minute chances that you can get pregnant (which is the only thing I worry about- no STD worry here). The only difference is that with a condom, you know that you enter that risk zone if it breaks. You don't really know if the pill loses any effectiveness. So I suppose with one you can blame pregnancy on a broken condom, and with the other you just go, "Hmm. Shit."

In terms of no protection whatsoever- no pills or shots- no. I have never done that. Too damn risky.

basmoq 09-17-2005 02:54 PM

I CANNOT get off with a condom. I feel virtually nothing and can go untill I collapse from exhaustion without ever getting off. It sucks because my wife can't use the pill, and one baby is enough for now...

tec-9-7 09-17-2005 04:12 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by skier
I'm really curious about this one. I always see so many "Wrap it up" posts in threads about pregger scares, or in "new to sex" threads. That's why i'd like to see how many of us have actually gone bareback, even if it's just once.

I've done bareback many times... Probably because I was in a committed relationship and I've had a vasectomy... No pregnancy worries on my end!

BeBogus 09-26-2005 09:54 PM

My first sexual encounter was without a condom. What a way for my gf to break me in... She ended up being late with her period for quite for about 2 months and took a trip to Planned Parenthood. You would think I would learn a lesson from this, but honestly I still have unprotected sex.

Gilda 09-26-2005 10:29 PM

Name a stupid, risky sexual behavior and I probably did it during what I think of as my "dark period" which was, oh, roughly the 90's. I was very lucky not to have picked up AIDS or herpes during that time.

Now, well, for obvious reasons it's not an issue.

Gilda

ryfo 09-27-2005 12:25 AM

Unprotected for STD's but protected against pregnancy, but we are an old married couple and been together 20yrs +

Martian 09-27-2005 12:45 AM

Before my current girlfriend I wore a condom every time. It just wasn't worth the risk in my mind.

When this one and I first had sex,we went a little wild. I ran out of condoms. I told her that I was out but that I trusted her, she said that she thought I was being silly because she was on birth control anyway. We haven't used one since.

The feeling is so much better without a condom and being with a girl I trust means I don't need one. She's definitely not the type to forget to take the pill and we keep condoms for situations where there might be added risk, for example if she's on antibiotics.

8 out of 100 couples using the pill get pregnant within a year. Most of that can be attributed to a missed pill and the rest is due to antibiotics or some other medication interfering. I trust my girlfriend completely but I did the homework anyway for my own peace of mind and it seems like if a girl gets pregnant on the pill, she's made a mistake. Or at least, that's the consensus I get.

It helps me too knowing that I plan on marrying this girl and we will be having children some day. If she were to get pregnant now, it'd be a blow but we could handle it.

Poppinjay 09-27-2005 09:18 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by kramus
I have never had it any other way. Now that I'm getting a divorce I will have to discover the wonderful world of rubbers - yech. And I never got fixed so I fire live bullets as well. Double damn. Well, when the subject comes up in a future private moment I just hope for a cheery guide in the ways of modern sexual practice to help me with selection, putting the damn thing on, what to do with it when done, all that weird stuff.

yech again :(

Ahhh, the most awkward moment nudity provides; stopping the loving to put a glove on the nubbins.

Don't rely on the cheery guide for selection. Try out yourself before hand. I'll tell you that buying the less expensive store brand means less sensation. Get some, try one on, leave a bit extra at the tip to prevent breakage, and squeeze the weasel.

Sweetpea 09-27-2005 11:36 AM

Yes. But we've been exclusive sex buddies since an early age and did not have other partners.

We did use them for a time to avoid pregnancy, now that he's had a vasectomy, it's condom free all the time with no worries :)

Sweetpea


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