What 'type' do you attract.
 

I was thinking about this recently. It occured to me that the type of girls i attract usually are of a similar kind. I dont mean to categorise here, but just make some sense of it all.
The type that usually go for me are 'nice' girls, never 'bad' girls. These girls are quietly interesting and are generally pretty wholesome in character.
I dont attract psychos often, and nor the type of girl who cheats on her boyfriend and has sex with the whole football team. This is what i have noticed.

As a rule, I tend to attract girls with emotional problems. I am the type of person that feels best when people around me are happy, and I work really hard to make that happen. I don't know why, but it seems like every girl I've gotten into a serious relationship with has told me later that she was abused or raped and I made them feel safe and comfortable. It kinda makes me feel good that anyone can be comfortable around me, but none of these relationships have worked out, and its usually because of their emotional difficulties.

i tend to attract people that are emotionally abusive and manipulative. i'm out of that cycle now though. :)

I've attracted guys that seem to want to 'take care of me', but to the extent that I could no longer be independant. Thankfully I seem to have overcome this now :)

I seem to attract intelligent, unconventional guys who have tons of respect for me but don't do a lot of caretaking or gift-giving. I guess they like the idea of being with an independent woman but I'd like just a little bit of the mushy stuff every now and then... :(

Oh, and they like cats. If they didn't when we met, they are cat fans by the time I get through with them.

Imaginary women :|

Maybe when I get out more . . .

but when younger I only noticed the interest of those who were unattractive to me - and those times were few. There were 2 notable exceptions to this rule; the one I married, the other bedded me for my first time :crazy:

in the past 20 odd years since the only 2 times I really noticed an interest were at dances - I went home with the wife and within a few months each of those ladies left their spouses. I'm not sure of what to make of that fact :hmm:

I am pretty sure that I am oblivious to the obvious in some ways. I wonder if I just don't know how to read the "signals" unless the ladie basicly presses herself to my thigh :rolleyes:

Let's see-- inthe past 15 years --it's all been whiney types who haven't cut the apron strings to momma.

ooooh :o so I'd better be careful if I feel the urge to wink at women in airports :lol:

I haven't attract many people thusfar, but the few I have attracted (and this could include friends, as well) tended to be people who never had time for me or who couldn't be bothered to try and spend time with me. I was the only one who made an effort to keep the "relationship"/friendship going.

I tend to attract all types of men, except for meatheads. I don't try to attract those :) Lately, I've been on a computer nerd kick. I think it's because of where I work.

i tend to attract those who are emotionally "clingy" or tend to have some similar problems

I honestly attract all types. Most common would probably young girls who are most of the time immature, on top of being too young for me. Been a few that haven't been. I also seem to attract girls who are taken as well. Why I do not know. Thats annoying. Thus I wander alone. Oh well.

Asta!!

I attract....um....er....*searching...*

Okay not very many people, but the few that I do are usually at least semi-emotionaly unstable. Of course, then after I help them with whatever it is, they suddenly have other things to do...or maybe I'm just bitter. :hmm:

Protectors who want me like a child wants a kitten.

I used to attract women who felt they could 'control' me. I've since grown enough of a backbone that I, generally, tend to keep those away now. Actually, it's kind of strange... Now I don't know what kind of women I attract.

However, I pretty consistantly attract all manner of guys. That's pretty cool for meeting new people, for good and bad.

Witches....they all seem to be witches

Prefer the term 'Warlock,' pal.

I attract all types because I am irresistable.

All of my ex's except for one were/haved turned into drug dealers. I guess that's the type I attract.

Beware (streak_56)

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I've attracted many different types of people... .so I'll go with what was attracted to me and at what stages....

At first it was just abused people, mentally, emotionally, physically, sexually. I don't know what it was about me that attracted them but it happened. Never really got with anyone like that. I needed someone who was strong.

Next it was people who made me feel better about myself. This was at a time that I felt like crap and I needed that boost of self esteem. As selfish as that sounds, it happened and this was probably the worst that has happened to me.

And last, it was girls who would abuse me. Take advantage of me, take all I had and then just lie. Basically it was just kicking me all around, everyday. It hurt not just physically but emotionally as well. But it made me a strong person, made me fight for myself.

Alas my end, I 'attracted' someone because of my blue eyes. It started from there and blossomed. It's a beautiful friendship, love and person that I love right now. And I couldn't be happier with where I have started and where I am going....

I think I attract girls who spend a lot of time in the library and make all their homework on time. I believe that because that's how I am... :lol:

I find that I attract much older men. And by older I mean at least 30 years older than myself. I don't know why this is. I want guys my age to find me attractive!! I'm sure they do, but the older men seem to convey what they think while the others remain silent.

I also used to attract guys who were manipulative, controlling, jealous and emotionally unstable. I felt that I could help them. I have given up on these types and found a computer nerd.

I don't really know what types I attact. As far as I know, and I'm pretty thick (as in I can't tell when a girl is interested, just ask my gf), only 6 girls have been interested in me. In fact, I didn't even know one of them was interested in me at all until she confessed after I got together with my current gf. All of them have been smart and independent. I just wish I had a clue as to when the ladies were interested.

^ Man can I relate to that. I would have had so many girlfriends right now if they'd just let me know how they feel. I've only ever had one :(

Asta!!

I have attracted many different types... but all seem to have had one wonderful personality trait in common-- immaturity. :rolleyes:


I think it has to do with the fact that I wasn't necessarily on my way to "growing up" either, but when I finally was, ugh... I'm glad I left them to their trivial lives.

That sounds as though I had many at one time. I really didn't.

Fortunately, I am with someone now who even surpasses my maturity level.
I am a lucky woman, finally. :D

I attract all different kinds of folks. Depends on who's into a girl with a pin-up body and sexual confidence. I've gotten just about every kind of guy you can imagine asking me for a date.

Well as far as being asked out on a date, being asked for my phone number, being asked for my name, a smile, or to show someone my tits, being asked to marry someone or being asked for a blow job, yeah - all kinds. Whether they want to stick around after making my acquaintance is another matter.

^ I'd stick around! :thumbsup:

Asta!!

No idea why, but the MILFs seems to be stalking me!

Crazy women.
I am being truthful, unless the women is crazy, she doesn't see me.

It is something I am doing, or...
I am starting to think, all women are crazy.

It's kind of odd, but I have noticed that I tend to get mildly neurotic women whose dads are a bit on the heavyset side. Every one of them that I have met has made me say to myself, "me in 30 years." Fortunately, the women have all been ever so slightly kinky, and signifiantly horny.

You're supposed to attract them?


I'm pretty oblivious to any attraction other than my own. My wife tells me me she had to practicly whack me over the head to get my attention.

I attract insecure girls who seem leave after years of therapy and guidence from me. I have never had a short term relationship. On the other hand I'm attracted to girls who have their shit together but would rather be with some meathead asshole.

Earlier in my life. I attract extremely religous girls. This caused problems later on with me being a spritualist and them wanting me to be more Christian. That was most of my previous girlfriends.

My last GF was the type of girl that I am attracted too, but that went sour after a year.

Now, I don't attract anything. I think I might have turned off my sexuality or something.

I attract the girls who need me to 'save' them.

Usually it's 'save' me from this horrible, horrible boyfriend and the subsequent horrible, horrible relationship, but that's not always the case. A girl in high school wanted to move in with me to get away from her parents. A girl I used to work with blamed me for her lapsing faith when confronted by her dad. He actually came to my apartment and accused me of being 'sinful.' He also threatened to whoop my ass if I didn't keep away from his daughter. Another woman I had been seeing off and on wanted to 'take the relationship to a new level' (move in together) after she got kicked out of her apartment by her roommate. Kicked out for...wait for it....blowing all her money on stupid shit and leaving none for the bills.

Ahhh, L'Amour

I attract girls with self confidence issues. Ones that feel they aren't worth much, so they lowball when it comes to date and mate selection. I'm only half joking.

i attrack girls that think i have potential. girls seem to think im a lost little boy waiting for them to show me direction. little do they know im a pot smoking beach hippy who is set im his simple ways.

my current girl says i was doing ok before her but now im doing great....lol...ok.

I'm pretty lucky in this reguard.

I tend to attract independent yet willing to let the man lead types.

They also tend to be super horny and sexually adventureous.

win, win, win.

I attract any kind of girl I see that I decide I want to....

it's always in your hands, not in theirs.

All types. Geeky, shy, self-confident, insecure, etc.

Somehow, I manage to attract every girl that I am not interested in. :(