Question regarding "mutual masturbation"
 

well, the topic may be a little 'off-center' but I couldn't put it any better than that.

A *LOT* of people find me weird for my masturbation quirks. What I mean by this is that I have this absolute love and admiration for masturbating while chatting with people online or even in person, while they either know that I'm doing it, or enjoy watching. It almost gets to the point that I prefer it over sex itself, because I find it a whole lot more erotic to know that someone else is interested in watching me pleasure myself and eventually finish by myself, rather than them touching me.

As I said, a lot of people find me very very strange for this. Am I wrong in any way? Is this truly something I should be ashamed of and perhaps keep to myself more?

I ask this publicly because, as I'm sure you could tell, I'm VERY open about this sort of thing, but I dont want to weird people out anymore, and I most certainly don't want to lose possible friendships or anything of that nature.

Point: I enjoy masturbating, and I enjoy doing it while other people know I'm doing it. Is this ok?

Thanks in advance.

Hey akito - whatever floats your boat!

Have you checked out www.ttr2.com/chat ?
They have many guys and sometimes girls who have webcams and are more than happy to indulge in a bit of mutual self-pleasuring!

And no, you're not strange. Don't ever let anyone tell you that man! :thumbsup:

Fatboss.. you're probably the most encouraging person I've met. Props to you for letting me be the way that I am. Right on man. :)

Interesting, but as long as the people that you are participating in this with are consenting, etc, etc, blah, blah, I don't see anything wrong with it either.

Are you masturbating....right now? :p

As long as you're not hurting anyone, what does it matter?

Hmm...that's kind of my opinion on everything...

I can see people getting a little creeped out if you were into masturbating while interacting with people without them knowing it. That edge of nonconsensuality would bother me too, quite frankly. But look, you like what you like and nobody gets hurt, so what's the problem? It's kind of hot, actually--sort of like phone sex or cybersex, but one-way. I can see how a person could get off on that.

One thing the Internet has taught us, no matter how weird your tastes are, there's a web site out there devoted to it. And frankly, in the grand scheme of things, your tastes really aren't all that weird.

Just to clarify, that's not the case whatsoever. It's always fully known. I wouldn't try to deceive people like that, it's just not my style.

You guys have definitely made me feel better and more comfortable with it, can't thank you enough. :)

I can think of things that are more "disturbing" and potentially harmful.


So keep on jerkin'! :thumbsup:

As long as you're not like the men that call the sex-ed clinic at school...

You know what, I'm the same way sometimes. Not to the point of prefering it over sex, but I agree that it's very very erotic.

I agree, there is just something about watching a lady rub one out while i'm rubbing one out.

Definitely agreed there Phant.....nothing hotter.

I agree with you cello, it is definetely erotic. I wouldnt worry or be concerned akito....if it's something you enjoy then thats cool..... if it isnt another person's style then they dont have to play along! :p

akito, i can see how it would be a problem if you were in a realtionship and this bothered your SO. keep that in mind and so long as it doesn't interfere with potential relationships, don't worry about it.

oh of course.. if I was in a relationship then I wouldn't be doing it so publicly. But I'm as single as it gets. :P

akito, I am very turned on by people knowing I am masturbating, too. It is hot! I like to be asked questions about how wet I am and to be generally 'interviewed" about my masturbation habits, it really turns me on. So I say - enjoy! :icare:

Awesome Batski! You know exactly where I'm coming from then I think. Glad to know someone else is in this same boat with me! :D :icare:

What you're describing isn't really my thing, but I sure don't see any harm in it. A lot of people enjoy the stuff you're talking about. My personal opinion is that anyone who criticises you for something like that is pretty narrow-minded and needs to get out more. It's a pretty mild kink if you ask me.