drying out of the skin on my penis - Tilted Forum Project Discussion Community

tacobaal · 06-02-2005, 11:59 AM

well i havent been sexuly active long so i realyl dont know if this is normal so i thought i would ask.

me and my fiance have sex allot (2 to 3 times a day or more when we are together) and i have noticed that the skin on my penis becomes extreamly dry and cracks to the point of bleeding after a couple days of this much activity.

i was just wondering if this is at all normal when having allot of sex without the use of a condom? (she's on the pill) we have both been checked and are compleatly disease free so thats not any cause for it, but its kinda allarming looking down and seeing it bleeding :S

ontheroad · 06-02-2005, 12:13 PM

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iamabanana · 06-02-2005, 12:14 PM

There are a few questions:

a) Are you using lube, and if so are you using enough of it?
b) Does she "dry out" fast and/or complain of being too dry?
c) Are you cleaning yourself off after sex?

I don't think it's normal. Abrasions on the penis aren't normal.

tacobaal · 06-02-2005, 12:22 PM

a) Are you using lube, and if so are you using enough of it? no lube

b) Does she "dry out" fast and/or complain of being too dry? shes always very wet and never complains of being dry

c) Are you cleaning yourself off after sex? yes, well usually

Sage · 06-02-2005, 03:35 PM

This has happened to Martel, definitely not to the point of cracked and bleeding, but he gets dry skin which sheds. However, his is from masturbating dry and not necessarily from having sex. So, are you masturbating a lot in addition to having sex? If so, do you masturbate "dry" (no lube)?

Personally, this sounds like a more serious issue- your penis shouldn't bleed. When's the last time your girl went to her OBGYN? She might have an infection (not an STD, just a regular ole infection) that is affecting the secretions of her vagina. You should go to your doctor and her to hers and both get checked out. The doctor is the only person who's going to be able to tell you definitively what is going on.

Bottom line: Get both of ye to thy doctor!

tacobaal · 06-02-2005, 04:42 PM

she went to hers a couple times since this started happining, she checks out ok, dosent happen at all when i masturbate (dry or wet).

oh boy this is gonna be an intresting doc visit :S lol

healer · 06-03-2005, 12:27 AM

I used to get the dry, flaky skin thing - no bleeding though. I found that it was merely a dry skin issue more than anything else. Some tissue oil applied once daily sorted me out within a coupla days.

bubonico · 06-03-2005, 12:38 AM

I think you've been playing to much Diablo 2 LOD

tacobaal · 06-03-2005, 05:48 AM

lol bubonico, i quit that game a loooooong time ago, but yeah i was really into it and this name for me kinda just stuck

nice to see someone finnaly got the name

Sage · 06-03-2005, 07:01 AM

HAVE YOU BEEN TO THE DOCTOR YET??? (just checking....)

I hope you get better. Sex hang-ups because your body is doing something wierd are no fun at all!!

(and remember if her libido drops a lot it's because of the birth control!)

bera · 06-04-2005, 08:38 AM

Dude, I had this once. But without the bleeding. anniegetyergun´s answer was effective.

macmanmike6100 · 06-04-2005, 09:13 AM

sometimes i inexplicably get some dryness on the shaft, usually closer to the head. on occasion there has been light "bleeding," in the way that might happen if skin is dry, cracked, and stretched (masterbation, sex). moisturizer helps, but you should go to a doctor if this is a frequent problem. hopefully it's just dry, overworked skin!

tacobaal · 06-04-2005, 11:28 AM

i went to the clinic, just a tad bit embarrasing talking to the female doc about it lol, but yeah she told me to put moisturiser on it and rub it in good so it absorbs (my mind was in the gutter at that point lol) other then that she said have sex with a condom more freqently and when its sore, no anal exept with a TON of lube (which i do anyways)

EDIT: "(and remember if her libido drops a lot it's because of the birth control!)" guess im lucky it has had the exact opposit effect on her

06-02-2005, 11:59 AM	#1 (permalink)
tacobaal Tilted	drying out of the skin on my penis well i havent been sexuly active long so i realyl dont know if this is normal so i thought i would ask. me and my fiance have sex allot (2 to 3 times a day or more when we are together) and i have noticed that the skin on my penis becomes extreamly dry and cracks to the point of bleeding after a couple days of this much activity. i was just wondering if this is at all normal when having allot of sex without the use of a condom? (she's on the pill) we have both been checked and are compleatly disease free so thats not any cause for it, but its kinda allarming looking down and seeing it bleeding :S

06-02-2005, 12:13 PM	#2 (permalink)
ontheroad Upright Location: wherever i feel alive	ffffffffffffffffff __________________ under the spreading chestnut tree, i sold you and you sold me Last edited by ontheroad; 12-13-2006 at 07:52 PM..

06-02-2005, 03:35 PM	#5 (permalink)
Sage hoarding all the big girl panties since 2005 Location: North side	This has happened to Martel, definitely not to the point of cracked and bleeding, but he gets dry skin which sheds. However, his is from masturbating dry and not necessarily from having sex. So, are you masturbating a lot in addition to having sex? If so, do you masturbate "dry" (no lube)? Personally, this sounds like a more serious issue- your penis shouldn't bleed. When's the last time your girl went to her OBGYN? She might have an infection (not an STD, just a regular ole infection) that is affecting the secretions of her vagina. You should go to your doctor and her to hers and both get checked out. The doctor is the only person who's going to be able to tell you definitively what is going on. Bottom line: Get both of ye to thy doctor! __________________ Sage knows our mythic history, King Arthur's and Sir Caradoc's She answers hard acrostics, has a pretty taste for paradox She quotes in elegiacs all the crimes of Heliogabalus In conics she can floor peculiarities parabolous -C'hi

06-03-2005, 12:38 AM	#8 (permalink)
bubonico Upright Location: Iraq :(	I think you've been playing to much Diablo 2 LOD __________________ "People sleep peacably in their beds at night only because rough men stand ready to do violence on their behalf" -George Orwell

06-03-2005, 07:01 AM	#10 (permalink)
Sage hoarding all the big girl panties since 2005 Location: North side	HAVE YOU BEEN TO THE DOCTOR YET??? (just checking....) I hope you get better. Sex hang-ups because your body is doing something wierd are no fun at all!! (and remember if her libido drops a lot it's because of the birth control!) __________________ Sage knows our mythic history, King Arthur's and Sir Caradoc's She answers hard acrostics, has a pretty taste for paradox She quotes in elegiacs all the crimes of Heliogabalus In conics she can floor peculiarities parabolous -C'hi

06-02-2005, 12:14 PM	#3 (permalink)
iamabanana Upright Location: Behind you.	There are a few questions: a) Are you using lube, and if so are you using enough of it? b) Does she "dry out" fast and/or complain of being too dry? c) Are you cleaning yourself off after sex? I don't think it's normal. Abrasions on the penis aren't normal.

06-02-2005, 12:22 PM	#4 (permalink)
tacobaal Tilted	a) Are you using lube, and if so are you using enough of it? no lube b) Does she "dry out" fast and/or complain of being too dry? shes always very wet and never complains of being dry c) Are you cleaning yourself off after sex? yes, well usually

06-02-2005, 04:42 PM	#6 (permalink)
tacobaal Tilted	she went to hers a couple times since this started happining, she checks out ok, dosent happen at all when i masturbate (dry or wet). oh boy this is gonna be an intresting doc visit :S lol

06-03-2005, 12:27 AM	#7 (permalink)
healer Found my way back Location: South Africa	I used to get the dry, flaky skin thing - no bleeding though. I found that it was merely a dry skin issue more than anything else. Some tissue oil applied once daily sorted me out within a coupla days.

06-03-2005, 05:48 AM	#9 (permalink)
tacobaal Tilted	lol bubonico, i quit that game a loooooong time ago, but yeah i was really into it and this name for me kinda just stuck nice to see someone finnaly got the name

06-04-2005, 08:38 AM	#11 (permalink)
bera Upright	Dude, I had this once. But without the bleeding. anniegetyergun´s answer was effective.

06-04-2005, 09:13 AM	#12 (permalink)
macmanmike6100 High Honorary Junkie Location: Tri-state.	sometimes i inexplicably get some dryness on the shaft, usually closer to the head. on occasion there has been light "bleeding," in the way that might happen if skin is dry, cracked, and stretched (masterbation, sex). moisturizer helps, but you should go to a doctor if this is a frequent problem. hopefully it's just dry, overworked skin!

06-04-2005, 11:28 AM	#13 (permalink)
tacobaal Tilted	i went to the clinic, just a tad bit embarrasing talking to the female doc about it lol, but yeah she told me to put moisturiser on it and rub it in good so it absorbs (my mind was in the gutter at that point lol) other then that she said have sex with a condom more freqently and when its sore, no anal exept with a TON of lube (which i do anyways) EDIT: "(and remember if her libido drops a lot it's because of the birth control!)" guess im lucky it has had the exact opposit effect on her